Wife suspects

My wife keeps asking me why I’m spending so much time in the shower. She’s even thrown away my lube. How do you guys find time to PE and are there any discreet lubes out there? Is shampoo or shower gel definitely out of the question and why? No real gains yet will I ever.

Hi Andythirll

What kind of lub do you use? I have found that if you leave it out in plain site it works.

Body lotion works fine and is OK to leave in the bathroom without arousing suspicion.

Don’t jelq or jelq when you are home alone.

BiggusMikus

That is what I have been using for the last 7 month. I like Jergens Moisturizer for Jelqing, plus I leave it buy the night stand. I use it for other use, so she dosen’t know the differents.

Actually, andy, the question that comes to my mind is “What did you tell her when she asked?”

What’s your routine like, mate? How long have you been PE’ing for? When did you start your routine? Perhaps 15min a day in the WC on your break at work might do the trick.

GM

Just tell her your wacking off.

Wait a sec, huff, this might be what is affecting his gains!

I’m telling Westla.

Andy, you need to provide the experts with more info. Then they can help you. And then your wife will really have something to be suspicious about.

Have you ever tried dry jelqing? That would take care of the lube problem, and personally I prefer it.

Are you completely sure she wouldn’t understand if you told her you were doing PE? If she knew, it would eliminate the need to hide it. I told my wife after doing PE on the sly for about 2 months. Fortunately, she’s been really supportive, and our work schedules support my PE without any conflict. Good luck. I hope you can tell her. I’ll bet she’ll be cool.

I concur with clgpalmer and I am surprised to see this mentioned after 9 posts, actually I find it sad.

I am sure as a woman she will blow up and get VERY INSECURE but reassure her it is for you and you wanting to please her, I told my wife I have wanted more far before I met her and it is a self image thing. Needless to say don’t think you will tell her and have her say “okay honey” and walk away but if you are open with each-other otherwise then tell her or else she WILL blast you with “why do you need to sneak, what else are you sneaking”, I find telling my wife most things cuts nagging and other noises that come out of her mouth at least 50%.

:) And you ignore the other 50%.

Thanks guys for the advice,I’ve been pe ing now since november I work a funny shift pattern 4 days on 4 days off 4 nights on 4nights off and it’s 12 hour shifts ,I pe when I can and normally spend abou half hour in the shower 5 min warm up 5 min stretch and about 200 jelqs ialso kegel as and when I can,I find it really hard(n0 pun intended) to find the time to pe but really want to, due to my work commitments and the fact that I have 2 young kids I guess it’s going to take a long time to get any noticeable gains

(Pssst Andy, find the space bar please)