Wife caught me with extender

I ordered an extender from x4 labs, it came in 2 weeks ago my wife opened the package and texted me saying she was hurt, that she likes my 6.5” cock just the way it is. She wants me to return it. Just saying, does size really matter to her or is it just me? Lol

Then I found this site. I usually do my stretch and jelq in the shower. I have been at it two weeks now. Maybe she won’t notice when it starts growing. Has anyone here had experience with ballooning?

She’s your wife and maybe she don’t want to take more then 6’5 haha. Talk to her and if she’s still upset then do what you gotta do. Do it in secrecy! Haha

She was hurt, huh? Not as much as she will be, da-dum dum. Seriously, this to me is like women saying: Ewwww, gross, that guy shaves his chest! Ewwww, gross, that guy is hairy! You are “gross” either way. In the case of the wifey, bless her soul, it is a massive indicator that you are trying to build a weapon of love worthy of a god. That would naturally bring out the insecurity of any woman. Does she really deserve to be the sole recipient of a huge 8 inch love wand? That is a question you must answer, and convince yourself and her of the affirmative.

If anything, it puts more pressure on her to be perfect. Tell her about kegals.

Yes, ballooning seems to slowly add girth and length by keeping your erection at a max about to come level. It seems to be the foundation of manual girth exercises, because hand clamping is effective when the penis is quite engorged. Ballooning is sort of the runway of the whole manual girth air transport system, to be crazy with a metaphor. I think clamping works without ballooning, and jelqing is pretty great, although it seems to be difficult because the nerves get shifted around.

Dude: Go for length first, unless your girth is really bothering you. You got an extender, but you might want to get pretty conditioned, your tissues will perhaps respond better to the extender, and I think “earning it” with a year of manual is the way to go.

Good luck and here’s to great gains!

Yeah right, like I’m gonna take a day off or remove my extender. You must have lost your mind.

The function is your friend, ballooning, clamping, all manner of esoterica can be found here.

Now as to the extender, if it’s still under discussion perhaps explain it away as a preventative measure against ED- that it is to assist as a long term therapy.

Maybe just stretch and jelq for now. Extenders aren’t exactly “hide able”

I’m going to be blunt here. Your wife needs to learn that as long as any gains you make don’t physically hurt her, it’s none of her business! It’s YOUR body, not hers. This is something I feel very strongly about as I have had various people throughout the years try and tell me why they ought to be able to tell me what to do with my own dick. Talk about it with her and try to get her to understand. The only way I would ever back down in such a position is if it somehow threatens my marriage. Try to draw analogies. Guys want bigger dicks like women want to be thinner/have bigger boobs/tighter pussies/whatever. She honestly has no right. That’s my opinion.

Actually they are married, “cattolically” his body is her body!

Try to figure your wife binding stones to her boobs and launching them away from the window.. Wouldn’t you tell her “Honey I really do love your boobs the way they are” ?

Maybe she just thinks it’s extreme, and buying an extender automatically made you sort of a “maniac” trought her eyes.

And most of all, she’s maybe worried about problems you can run into by PEing!

Women have difficulties with male sexuality period. It seems as if everything we du is either disgusting or threatening to them.

If your wife is truly your wife then she will come to the realisation that you have the absolute right to make your Dick bigger if you want to.

True, but paradoxically, she uses it more than u do.

If she likes this way and she wants it to stay just..leave it this way!

In your position i would keep doing exercises for a good erection, but not that much for penis increases.

What if you make it bigger and then it will hurt her? She shaves for ya, she uses cream for ya, wear sexy bra for ya… marriage is do things to each other!

At least, this is my opinion.

Of course if you get large enough to hurt her then there would be reason, but the zero tolerance thing is something different.

Too often men give up everything in marriage, and there needs to be a balance.

PE is one of those things that balances.

It is true that spouses in a marriage relationship belong to each other on a physical level, but there is a limit.

You know it’s funny; the same kind of thing happened to me lately. The difference is she found this site not an extender.

At first she got a little angry. That is her natural defence when she feels hurt. She told me she likes me the way I am and that she has never complained or given me any reason to think otherwise.

So I just told her in words she could understand. I told her, I”m sorry if me trying to make myself feel better; about myself, hurt her. I told her that I’m glad she likes me the way I am, but that I don’t. I told her that she does not have to support me in this, but that her support would truly help me feel better about myself as well.

In today’s society women understand; better than most men, the battle of low self image. Let her know this is something you want to do to feel better about yourself. Lets face it, this is a world of boob jobs, tummy tucks, and face lifts. Your wife will understand if you break it down to self image, and when it comes down to it, that’s why we do PE.

Brilliant! Spot on observation.

Your wife opens your mail/packages?

I have ED so I showed my wife how I generated an erection with a penis pump. Her only response was “be careful you are going to hurt yourself.”

I believe her concern was based on the possibility that I would damage a “tool” we both enjoy. I once showed her how i injected Trimix into my dick in order to get an erection which completely turned her off such that i was left with a 90 minute erection and nothing to put it into. I think she would have a canary if she ever caught sight of her favorite tool being stretched out in my extender. Accordingly, I have practiced stealth extending for over two years.

I think her concern is the possible damage PE can inflict on my dick and not the idea of it actually being enlarged. In her mind if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it. However, though she has never specifically complimentd my bigger dick, she seems to get more pleasure out of it now than she did two years ago, especially when it is further engorged after a pumping session.