Originally Posted by dtwarren1942
I have ED so I showed my wife how I generated an erection with a penis pump. Her only response was “be careful you are going to hurt yourself.” I believe her concern was based on the possibility that I would damage a “tool” we both enjoy. I once showed her how I injected Trimix into my dick in order to get an erection which completely turned her off such that I was left with a 90 minute erection and nothing to put it into. I think she would have a canary if she ever caught sight of her favorite tool being stretched out in my extender. Accordingly, I have practiced stealth extending for over two years.
I think her concern is the possible damage PE can inflict on my dick and not the idea of it actually being enlarged. In her mind if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it. However, though she has never specifically complimentd my bigger dick, she seems to get more pleasure out of it now than she did two years ago, especially when it is further engorged after a pumping session.
It is human nature to be threatened by things we don’t understand. My wife saw this site open on the computer when we first met, and made comments based on her lack of understanding of the community here.
Her thoughts were that this was a site full of people bragging about how big their dick was and posting exhibitionistic pictures, and possibly homosexual dating. While some of that is probably true to a certain extent, the vast majority of what goes on here is about us all making our dicks bigger.
I realized that while she’s a Psychologist and a Professional, she’s never going to be able to cope with my PE practices and my being part of this community, so I went stealth.
I began PE, not for my wife but for me, and would never try to have the conversation with her about my self-esteem and assertive maleness etc. Because she, like most women, is intolerant of such things.
There are men here who’s spouses understand and even help with the exercises, but I will guess that the fair majority of women are going to be harmed emotionally by the thought of their man doing god-knows-what to their dick.
So, if you have thoughts about sharing PE with your girlfriend or wife, err on the side of caution.
Began December 2009 at 5 7/8" length and 5" girth.
As of December 5th 2012 7 3/8" BPEL and 6 1/8" base girth.
Going for the magic 8"x6"