Why do you guys hide PE from your wife?

I like your logic BG. Unfortunately I can’t match your girth (I did hit 6 once after pumping and clamping); however I prefer stuffing her with a hard salami.

She sounds like a real keeper. CONGRATS!

Okay, this is a sweeping generalization that appears to be born out of your own frustrations; it’s not actually true, you just feel like it is.

Absolutely not. Look above at your own post. It’s the same shit in different clothing.

I like it.

It just works on so many levels.

Nice disclaimer, but no amount of fine print makes your initial generalization true.

So… who pissed you off?

LOL

I’ve done that.

:D

I’m sorry. But that is hilarious.

Really? Hilarious?

I wonder how you would feel if you were being interviewed by your lawyer, your wife’s lawyer and made to make statements that are a matter of public record regarding your penis enlargement habits - being portrayed as an irresponsible parent who just plays with his dick all the time; maybe losing your house and child custody as a result.

I don’t know about you, but I feel for the guy.

Divorce is one of the toughest things you can go through and when they get ugly they can get REALLY ugly. And details from divorce proceedings have a way of trickling out of the courtroom and into the community as gossip.

I can find irony in many circumstances and laugh at a lot of stuff, but that just sounds like a painful situation all around.

Yeah, I can just see them holding up this bloodstained Bib Hanger as exhibit A.

The answer to why someone would keep their PE a secret from anybody is simple:

Most men are very insecure about the size of their penis and will do anything to keep the rest of the world from thinking that they have a small one.

Come on, guys!.

Listen, lets be realistic for a moment, I mean no disrespect here, but a lot of men that come here, or anywhere to discover Pe are here because they are insecure about the size of their penis. If they have a partner I’m pretty sure they are here (or anywhere else) to get a bigger dick to use on them. Now take that into consideration, when you realise the insecurities that these people have, weather they are statistically under average or not, in their mind they want a bigger penis. Why on earth would they want to discuss any of their insecurities with their partner. Insecurities are the very thing that we never share.

Best answer in the whole thread! ^^^

Forget all that share everything with your partner stuff some deep insecurities shouldn’t be shared until they are no longer a problem. I’m sure the significant other does the same if not their putting up a front. Sure take the chance and wear your heart on your sleeve and it might get knocked down and stomped on!

True True True

Your partner’s thought process could also be something along the lines of:

I love him very much.
I love him for who he is.
I love very much the way he is.
I am already happy and impressed.
If I love him the way he is, why is he trying to change that?
If he thinks I am not satisfied with him the way he is, perhaps he is not satisfied with me the way I am?
Is there an ulterior motive?

Well, what if you hide and she discover?

Change can be a threatening thing in a relationship.

When either partner suddenly changes their living patterns including suddenly taking more of an interest in their appearance, losing weight, joining a gym, working out, buying new clothes or new underwear, taking classes, or developing new interests (especially those which do not involve the other partner), there is the suspicion that it may be motivated by reasons outside of the relationship.

And those suspicions are not always unfounded.

So when a guy starts taking an interest in developing a larger, better working penis, there may be a suspicion by his partner about just who the improvements are intended for - and the suspicion that the improvements may not be intended for them.

^^Yeah, that’s true.

But isn’t hiding your PE activity calling attention? I mean, before or after she’ll discover, she will start wondering why you stay 1 hour in the bathroom or whatever strange behavior you have. Isn’t better just a plain ‘I like to do this PE thing because it is good for my sexual health?’. I’m not married, but my partner knows I do something for my penis health.

Although I wonder how she could react if she’ll catch me with 20 pounds hanging down my schlong. :D

:D Oh shit, I just had a really vivid mental picture of Marinera standing in the bathroom with a 20 lb weight hanging from his unit after his girlfriend busted in on him - and the deer-in-the-headlights expression on his face. How in the hell do you explain that one??? Sorry bud but too funny!

I think Lampwick hit the nail on the head. Some women are very self confident and trusting. Some tend towards jealosy. Hiding PE from your partner adds less ‘fuel to the fire’ for some relationships, so to speak.

Marinera, you are obviously right about the hiding in the bathroom for 1/2 hour thing calling attention to my strange behavior. I’m very seriously considering coming out of the PE closet for this reason, but am trying to find the right way to frame it to my wife and come ‘out’ with it.

So who knows what the answer is. I think it would be very liberating personally to just come out. PE is part of who I am.

Would be nice to have messrs. WestLA or NakedTomato to show up and give their thoughts on this :)

Our partners can help us get over our insecurities.

The bottom line is…as many guys say…they want a bigger dick for themselves. So why bother telling their wife about PE??

Few guys here would feel intimidated by the wife or SO’s ex-boyfriend with the 5.5 x 4.7 tool who made her orgasm every time they had sex.
The picture that haunts us is the one of the 8 x 6 dude who she hated to have sex with because he was too big. That’s the guy that some on here want to be. Does it make sense that they share that goal with their wife?