Why do guys starting at 7 inches plus bother

Firegoat, “natural athletes guys,” as you call them lol, go to the gym so they can dominate the AAS users, even though they are natural. I am one of them, and it gives me great pride to lift more than someone who is using steroids and is still weaker than me. It is ego yes, but striving for every extra pound of weight while the AAS users lift more easily, is a great feeling. So I answered that question. For me 7.5x6 is perfect, here’s hoping I reach that in 10 years, from 5 nbpel :( . It would be nice to be 8 inches, just to say it, but you can just as easily lie and fool most women who don’t carry a ruler around everywhere, with 7.5 lol.

Hey stud,

I’m almost at 7.5 and I started with the same stats as you. Good luck.

Good point. Who carries a ruler around. It would have to be based on the womans perception of size. What is your BPEL this is your true size. Place the ruler in the fat pad right up to the pubic bone.

The same reason a body builder builds - pure vanity.

Because porn makes most guys feel small.

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Originally Posted by ModestoMan
Also, and I slightly hesitate to say this, there is such a thing as “good enough” when it comes to sex. An orgasm feels good and satisfies the body and spirit. Becoming a “perfect” partner when you’re already pretty damn good doesn’t offer much additional benefit. One might be better off adopting a different goal, like reading a good book.

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I’m sorry but I have to disagree.

You can: Have non ejaculatory orgasms as intense as ejaculatory orgasms that allow you to make love for a couple hours easily.
You can: Lift weights so that you can physically deliver.
You can: Learn about the G-Spot (Donald Hicks book— priceless) and that changes everything.
a) Women can come many times from g-spot— over an hour - every few minutes. (Longest so far was 3.5 of 5 hours she was having rolling orgasms)
b) The experience is deeply spiritual for them.
c) When the sex is so good, they become almost wild and you find yourself doing things you never thought they would do.
d) They do literally say things like, “I want you to be happy! I’ll do anything for you!”
e) They are in a wonderful, happy, friendly mood for days afterwards so every other interaction from dinner to garbage duties goes smoother.
f) As you fill them with pleasure, they finally really do get full and it starts to come out as “d” above in many ways. They are just so happy with you that they have to find ways to make you happy too.
g) They say things like “I fell in love with you all over again just now!”

There are significant personal benefits and wonderful emotional benefits to providing that much happiness to another person.
Don’t weigh yourself down with perfection- but don’t give up. The bliss you can find is worth it.

Keep jelqing- keep reading on the g-spot- keep reading on the tantra- keep worshiping, cherishing and adoring her and it will come back to you three fold. Do everything you can to please them and you will find happiness and satisfaction you may think you would never find.

Are these women you refer to as “they” actual women you’ve been with or imagined women you fantasize about?

Well, I’m experiencing what he describes right now as a result of recent events along the lines he’s talking about. Is it worth it, time will tell. Right now it certainly seems so :) . Now, if we run out of new experiences all may be for naught :|.

Modesto.

Look back over my very sparse posts here for the last year.

I am serious. I’m not bullshitting you. I’m preaching.

It gives me such a feeling of confidence and happiness to be able to let her feel that much pleasure. We had several years of “great” sex before I got serious about sex. She would come a few times— I’d last about an hour. We’d be happy. Then I started getting various books through the torrent sites. I discovered jelqing. It’s like the average person knows about 1% of what they could know about sex.

The G-spot (again- Donald Hicks book was a literal roadmap of the 10 steps to doing this right including the emotional parts) is a major improvement for your female partner. A pyrex glass dildo is a major part. Tantric exercises to become multi-orgasmic as a male is a major part. It greatly increases the male’s pleasure too. Jelqing increased my size. Knowing how it use it is nice— but knowing how to use it and being over a half an inch longer makes a clear difference. Hitting bottom and pressing the cervix back a quarter inch has an effect. Being able to angle and hit the areas left and right of the cervix also matter. She now has 5 distinct areas that she has orgasms from.

You can skate along the edge of an orgasm for 10 to 15 minutes before cooling back down. It is like fire going down both legs, through your belly and out your finger tips. Or you can go over the edge but not ejaculate and immediately be able to start back up again several times before tiring.

Now with newfound experimentation she’s working on my “million dollar spot” (outside between the scrotum and anus) and the prostate (inside) with some electrifying mind blowing results (as in I lost the ability to speak and could only gasp with pleasure).

It just gets better and better. It’s like every hill you go over, there is another one. I’m still an incredible novice with regard to tantra. I can see another several years of learning all the concepts.

Don’t take it as arrogance— take it as rampant enthusiasm. I see this wonderful wonderful gift and pleasure and I want everyone to know about it and not lose hope or buy into “okay sex is good enough.”

The only thing I would say is that it takes patience. It’s not easy. You have to be relentlessly positive and keep your expectations down while approaching the entire thing sideways. It’s like jelqing- over a year you can see gains the rest of the world believes are impossible- but overnight you will see nothing.

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Johanson— watch out for the emotional intensity. It can be wicked and catch you by surprise! I can’t comprehend the pleasure I’m giving her but her emotional attachment became very strong. Women are so lucky. I can’t imagine a multi-hour orgasm. The term soul shattering comes to mind.

Amen!

I remember 7” I was on cloud nine for three weeks.

…and Maxo’s not even at seven inches yet!

Correction/Update: Maxo: Just saw the thread 6.38->7.06. You need to update your statistics.

So, per the theme of this thread: are you quitting now, or going for more? ;)

Maxo and Johanson:

Congratulations on your improved sex lives. PE is so much sweeter when it is accompanied by increased mutual sexual satisfaction.

Through PE, I’ve gained size, but I’ve also gained better erections and more sexual satisfaction. PE would be worth it just for those.

Hahahaha 7 inches pshhhhh.. no one is ever happy, they always want more even when you get what you want.

Most of us have an obsession of having a huge wang.

Maybe it’s an insecurity, I dont know.
All I know is I’ve always wanted a huge one.

One man’s dedication is another’s obsession.

Man that sucks.

I was in that situation for a year and a half (‘trying to make things work’) with a lady who I gave her first orgasm but then she went all religious on me and I wasn’t the same religion. It is a kind of hell. I sang “I gotta get out of this place” to myself for the last couple months every day before I finally pulled the trigger and left. Still close friends after 18 years and she never seemed to miss sex.

Have you looked into Tantric? Seriously, women’s sex is largely driven by emotion. You really ought to see if you can’t build a better emotional connection from her. She’ll likely be all over you. At least, if it works anything like over here in my little corner of the world :) .