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Why do guys starting at 7 inches plus bother

Originally Posted by Lampwick

Kauaiian:

Your ‘friend’ sounds insecure to me. What is there of substance to his core as a human being? Perhaps your ‘friend’ has had advantages that you have not had. That does not make him a winner or you a loser.

You have more potential than that. A man of substance doesn’t base himself on his vehicle, his money, or his family. They are not who he is, and they are not who YOU are.

Your ex and your backstabbing friend deserve each other. YOU deserve better.

Good post. :)

I think that I am misrepresenting things. I really don’t know how you came to the conclusion that he’s insecure. I never intended that he acquired those things because he was insecure. I was just trying to say that you could probably carry yourself around with more confidence if you had a good paying job, nice cars, and a above average family (I am not saying I don’t love my family. I’m just talking about his family being well-off). Basically, he has things that are above my average. I am not saying this is the primary source of his confidence but I am sure it adds to it.

I’m probably the one who’s insecure now. I was just doing a comparison between us. Aside from the facts of what he did to me he is a nice guy. He was a good friend up until that point. The whole betting thing is just a “thing” that few of my friends do (even my ex would participate in challenges for shots). I guess most males want to be the alpha-male.

I also deduce from his whole confident persona that he also has a “package.” As to how true this is I really don’t know but wouldn’t you carry yourself with more confidence if you knew you were packing something?

I am not defending him nor am I saying Lampwick is wrong. I just wanted to clarify what I was trying to say. I would also like to know how you came to the conclusion he’s insecure. I am just curious and I’m not trying to stir up any trouble. I would also like to say thanks for the pick me up. ^_^

GhostWolf you definitely got it right in my case. I’m 7 1/4” nbp x 5.25 - 5.5 eg and I do feel like crap about my unit and it is what made me originally seek out PE. Those are still practically starting stats since my concern for the last few years has been penile health over actual enlargement. (I’ve had to undo a lot of psychological damage from telling myself I was 100% impotent when I was really just really depressed, overweight, and glued to my computer chair killing my bloodflow for a long time). I was always rejected by the girls I liked when I was a teen and it left me with body dysmorphic disorder that got the ball rolling on all of this.

Originally Posted by ModestoMan
Also, and I slightly hesitate to say this, there is such a thing as “good enough” when it comes to sex. An orgasm feels good and satisfies the body and spirit. Becoming a “perfect” partner when you’re already pretty damn good doesn’t offer much additional benefit. One might be better off adopting a different goal, like reading a good book.

I am still basking in the subtle brilliance of this humble remark. As if in passing, Modesto drives home another nail of wisdom in one effortless hit.

Super’ was close; there really is something to be said for seeking to improve self. But this should always be considered in light of the cost to everything else that makes us who we are.

I am much more than the size of my wang. We all are. Improve what you can. Be dedicated to your art. Do that without losing sight of what is REALLY important.

Balance. Where is mgus?

Am I right, Hap?


"Debate the idea..."

Originally Posted by EZ Rider
But when I got to 7 5/8” to me, it just looked massive, why did 5/8” make so much of a difference?
Damn if I know.

I remember thinking hell if I think it looks great, what must a woman think when looking at it?

“The way a junkie eyes a needle” would pretty much sum up how they feel about it.

I’m absolutely 100% positive I would never want more than 8 inches, for so many reasons.


This needs it’s own thread.

I simply demand it. :)


"Debate the idea..."

Originally Posted by goonbaby

I am still basking in the subtle brilliance of this humble remark. As if in passing, Modesto drives home another nail of wisdom in one effortless hit.

So subtly brilliant, I’ve added it to the ‘quotes’ that appear at the bottom of the page. So now ModestoMan is immortalised alongside Mark Twain et al.

Originally Posted by kauaiian
I think that I am misrepresenting things. I really don’t know how you came to the conclusion that he’s insecure. I never intended that he acquired those things because he was insecure. I was just trying to say that you could probably carry yourself around with more confidence if you had a good paying job, nice cars, and a above average family (I am not saying I don’t love my family. I’m just talking about his family being well-off). Basically, he has things that are above my average. I am not saying this is the primary source of his confidence but I am sure it adds to it.

I’m probably the one who’s insecure now. I was just doing a comparison between us. Aside from the facts of what he did to me he is a nice guy. He was a good friend up until that point. The whole betting thing is just a “thing” that few of my friends do (even my ex would participate in challenges for shots). I guess most males want to be the alpha-male.

I also deduce from his whole confident persona that he also has a “package.” As to how true this is I really don’t know but wouldn’t you carry yourself with more confidence if you knew you were packing something?

I am not defending him nor am I saying Lampwick is wrong. I just wanted to clarify what I was trying to say. I would also like to know how you came to the conclusion he’s insecure. I am just curious and I’m not trying to stir up any trouble. I would also like to say thanks for the pick me up. ^_^

Let me explain how I came to have that impression.

Originally Posted by kauaiian
He carries himself around like he is the shit. Always wants to bet on every little thing. IE games, drinking, sports, and a whole lot of other shit he always says “I bet you can’t” or “Wanna bet?.”


People who are secure are not ostentatious in their bearings. There is a quiet serenity to true security in self. That is part of the potential I sense in you. You see your friends as equals, and you are not driven to be top dog. Being driven to be top dog is a sure road to continual dissatisfaction, because there will always be someone out there who is richer than you, who has better clothes or a better car than you, who has a better looking woman than you, and yes, who has a bigger penis than you. If those are your benchmarks, you are doomed to perpetual disappointment. You will never be happy or secure in what you DO have or in who you ARE.

Maybe the whole betting thing is something that some of your friends do, but it sounds to me like someone who is always trying to prove himself and establish his superiority. Again, this is something that someone who truly IS superior does not need to do. The alpha male is not the one going around challenging everyone all the time and trying to establish his superiority.

Deducing from his whole confident persona that he has a package may be a little bit of projection on your part. It is not true that you can’t project confidence without having a package. I’m reminded of the story that I’m sure has been told here about the self-confident guy who goes into a bedroom with a woman and drops his pants. She is surprised to see less there than she expected and asks, “Who do you expect to satisfy with THAT thing?” He just smiles and answers, “Me!”

He was confident and secure in himself. He knows that he is more than his cock size.

So, perhaps you understand a bit better now how I came to the conclusion that your friend may be insecure under his showy exterior.

I know that you feel insecure. You don’t need to. To start with, stop telling yourself that you are probably a loser. Work on being secure and confident in those things about you that are solid, and work on improving those areas where you know you need improvement. Know that process will take time, and allow yourself to be less than perfect in the process. It may be two steps forward, one step back, but what counts is the overall progress, not the setbacks which inevitably come along from time to time.


For Lampwick, becoming hung like a donkey was the result of a total commitment.

This forum is really helping me. Helping me a lot. That’s all I can really say for now. =]

Why I came…
I’m 6’5”.
I hooked up with a lady who was politely but obviously disappointed that I was only 6.38”.

I wanted my penis to match my size. It was larger than average at 6.38” but smaller than it should be compared to my body size.

I also have been member of adult sites such as adult friend finder. If you have an 8.0 member, you are going to have action all day long. If you have a 7.0, you are in the also rans.

Most women have a “check mark” desire to be stuffed with a really huge cock once in their life. Until they get stuffed once, that check mark remains open and wants to get marked off.

Now that I’m up to just over 7.0”, I’m hitting bottom and giving my GF the stuffed feeling some. I want to go to 7.25”. However, there is enormous value to getting laid in being able to say you have an 8.0.

It’s like the advantage you get in dating to say you are a doctor or a lawyer.

What is the “also rans?”

Are you sure those people looking for an 8 on adult friend finder are actually chicks? Most of what I see on craigslist are guys flashing pics of their 8” dicks and women insisting that isn’t what they want to see.


Enter your measurements in the PE Database.

This whole thread is a joke. Thats like asking a pro athlete why he wants higher pay when he is already signed on a 38 million dollar contract. Because every one always wants more thats why. I’ve been told by many I have the biggest cock they have ever had. Being right around 7” long and 5.5” thick, and I still want more. I know that a guy with a 6 inch pecker can get a woman off just as good as the next guy, just like a guy that has 10 million in the bank can buy nice things about as easy as a guy sitting on 15 million. But I am the kind of guy that would go for the 15 million over the 10 million. Plus It feels odd to have a guy that is 1/2 foot shorter than me have about the same size cock as I do. Being at 6’ tall and 200 pounds, I want to have a cock that is portioned to my body. Well, that is if it has to be miss proportioned to my body, then I want it to bigger not smaller. LOLOLOL. Buts thats just me.


Current: BPEL - 7.438" EG - 5.375 (base EG - 5.688") FL - 4.250" FG - 4.438" [19.150 ci]

Future Goal: 8" x 6" (2 red bull cans stacked on top of each other)

"Give them nothing, but take from them everything."

Maxo I could not agree with you more, I’m on adultfriendfinder to, but even at 5.5 I have got action. I can’t imagine if I was 8, how many messages I would get from couples and single fems. You are very right, 8 and above on that site is supreme.

Why do guys starting at 7 inches plus bother?

Why do ‘natural athletes guys’ go to the gym?

Why do guys make :tmobile: s that can exceed 150mph?

Why do guys have 8 :gulp: when they knew 7 was enough?

Why have guys flown to the :moon: when the earth is more interesting?

Why do guys :drool1: over :babe5: when they have perfectly fine woman already?

Why did the guy :rooster: cross the road?

There’s an answer there somewhere, but I can’t find it!

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL. Exactly!


Current: BPEL - 7.438" EG - 5.375 (base EG - 5.688") FL - 4.250" FG - 4.438" [19.150 ci]

Future Goal: 8" x 6" (2 red bull cans stacked on top of each other)

"Give them nothing, but take from them everything."

LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL

Great post firegoat!

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