Originally Posted by spacephallisy
Thanks Shootin. It does make sense that body hair is not completely related to testosterone levels. One of my good friends is actually the only guy I know less hairy then me and he is small and underdeveloped. However he is also the most sexual guy I know. He can have sex about 10 times a day and has a huge penis. My mind just keeps on trying to make me paranoid about things that don’t exist, and it all relates to sexual issues. It started from being psychologically impotent for a couple days which triggered a clinical depression which lasted 3 months, and now I just have bad self esteem.
Lethjp, my stats are nbp6.5 x 5 which I’m sure does not mean that puberty passed me by, but I am very self conscious about it non the less.
Self image is truly the root of your problem, not your lack of facial hair. I must moderately correct myself in saying that testosterone, for some people, will produce hair growth if the dosage is high enough. All you have to do is take a look at some female to male transgendered people. I’ve seen pictures of what used to be women sporting beards. But here’s the question you need to ask yourself.is such efforts worth it? It’s all artificially induced. If those women stop taking those shots, the hair goes away. Please realize that their issues are different. These are human beings who truly feel as if they are the wrong sex to begin with and they take these dramatic steps to feel normal. Your situation, I do not believe, is quite so dire.
As for your size. 6.5x5 is not bad! Matter of fact, you’re larger than a big group of people. I’m basically 6x4.75 and I’m 6’5” tall and weigh in at 235lbs. Think I don’t think my dick looks small? I do. However, I am here on this board to see if there is possibility to modify that. Like I said, there’s only so much we can do to alter our appearance. The question is whether or not we want to go through the trouble. From what I’ve seen on this board, changes to the size of one’s penis is possible, but only with a huge investment in time and effort.something I’m still debating on whether or not it’s worth the effort.
There’s a lot of social pressure out there to look a certain way, and it’s easy to be influenced by that. But the greatest thing you can do for yourself is to learn to accept yourself for who you are. Once you have that baseline, making changes to your body can be approached in a more healthy way rather than one out poor mental health.
You seem like a good guy. Focus on that, not the number of facial hairs on your face. Besides, eventually youth fades and our vigor goes with it.. And when you’re 80 you’ll still have to live with yourself and love yourself.