Which one to buy
I’d like to see this thread in one of the other forums, but as a newb I can’t put it there myself. So apologies in advance.
Here’s my dilemma. I’ve recently been diagnosed hypothyroid and very low testosterone. As a result, lately, I’ve been experiencing some difficulties getting or maintaining a full erection. I’ve been doing some basic PE exercises and that is helping, but I haven’t been very consistent, so I haven’t seen the gains that I’d like to see and my situation is starting to get worse.
I’ve mentioned the troubles to my wife of 18 years and she is understanding. She says that she hasn’t noticed, but I know she has. Just the other night we had quite a difficult time in bed because my equipment wasn’t cooperating.
Also, as a bit of background, we’ve had some issues in the past because I haven’t shared things with her that I should have, which has totally offended her and made her not trust me as much as I’d like. So, I don’t want to continue on with any further PE routine without letting her know my issues, concerns, and what I’m doing. I know that many here would say not to let her know, but I really feel the need to fill her in.
Now to the real dilemma, I’ve been considering 2 different devices pretty heavily to help me in my quest for better EQ and I’d also like to see a pretty big size improvement, especially girth, but length would also be very good. I’m looking at the Bathmate and also at the SizeGenetics extender (or something similar).
Whatever I order, I plan to tell my wife before I order it, and will need to provide some explanation as to what it’s for. I don’t think she’ll be too happy about the desire to increase my size, but know she’ll understand my concern about EQ. So, the Bathmate and the way it works will be pretty easy to show how it helps with EQ because of the actual forcing of blood into the penis while in use. I think the SizeGenetics is a little harder to attribute to EQ improvement since all their marketing is geared towards improving size.
Ideally, I’d like to get both devices and use the Bathmate in my morning shower and then use the SizeGenetics throughout the day to keep the extension. I work from home, so I can put in the hours in the extender.
I guess my big question for you all is - has anyone else used both of these devices together and seen good results? Also, if you had to pick just one to get, which one would it be? And, if I get the Bathmate alone, will it give me some length improvement, as well as, girth, or do I really need an extender for that?
Let’s have all the advice come with the caveat that I’m not likely to be consistent with any PE exercise other than using these devices. It’s not that I won’t try - I just know that I’m likely to be inconsistent, so I’d like to see if these tools would be useful in and of themselves without manual exercises.
Sorry for the long post, and I look forward to the advice.