What should I be feeling
Hi guys, sorry for the cryptic title.
I’ve just started PE’ing. I’m uncut with quite a lot of extra skin. Dry jelqs feel uncomfortable for me so I’m sticking with wet. I wanted to know what I’m supposed to be feeling during my workout.
After warm up and stretching I lube up then pull back my foreskin and hold the excess skin with a grip near my testicles. I then do an overhand ok grip (thumb and forefinger facing down and palm facing away from body) and then slowly (3secs) slide towards the end of shaft/base of head. What I get is a feeling of increasing pressure in the head of my penis which builds up until my hand reaches the end of the shaft and then it’s a rapid depressure and I can see the blood rushing back towards my body through the big vein on top of my shaft. Does this sound like the right kind of technique? I’ve never read here about people talking about blood rushing back through the penis at the end of the jelq.
One other point. I have been kegling my whole life unintentionally (I kegel while I masturbate because it feels better) and as a result I have an incredibly strong kegel muscle (can hold a kegel for up to a minute) Does this negatively affect jelqing? Is it okay to kegel between every stroke if I’m careful about how much pressure I’ve built up.
I suppose what I want to know overall is does pressure in the head of the penis during a jelq equate to proper blood flow which will lead to growth? Or is my technique off?