What do YOU think of as 'big'?

Gee, I hope you’re right. That means I’m already big. I’m now 7 x 5.75. I started at 6.5 x 5.25 (if I remember correctly. I’ll have to look at my records) which by those standards was definately respectable. My girlfriends have always said that I was big, to them- you kind of just figure they’re trying to fluff your ego, so maybe you are right.

I think , for me, that “big” starts with “bigger than me”. It’s hard to ever look at myself and say,”yeah, that’s big”. I’d like to get out of that, but who know’s maybe I could be 12 x 6.5 and think I wasn’t big. You are totally right though. Porn has ruined men’s perspectives of size.

You may not be able to see BPEL but you can sure use BPEL. You need to work with your technique. Thrusting with your butt muscles as well as your stomach muscles will get the whole thing in. It can be done. A little fat squishes easily.

But it is not too accurate because, of that 8inches 5-6 are used.

Its true that not all is used. But I think you may be on to something here. Maybe the dildo market is the best indicator of how women size us up.

The most common dildo is the ‘rabbit’ at about 5”.

What kind of girth does the Rabbit have?

The girth is also 5”.