I’m my opinion porn has ruined many men’s perception through photography manipulation and by just using airbrush,photoshop etc.
But from most on line surveys I’ve seen big begins at 7” If your 7” your in the 10-12 percentile.
Big for girth would probably be 5”
Gee, I hope you’re right. That means I’m already big. I’m now 7 x 5.75. I started at 6.5 x 5.25 (if I remember correctly. I’ll have to look at my records) which by those standards was definately respectable. My girlfriends have always said that I was big, to them- you kind of just figure they’re trying to fluff your ego, so maybe you are right.
I think , for me, that “big” starts with “bigger than me”. It’s hard to ever look at myself and say,”yeah, that’s big”. I’d like to get out of that, but who know’s maybe I could be 12 x 6.5 and think I wasn’t big. You are totally right though. Porn has ruined men’s perspectives of size.