Wet Jelq en EQ
I have been a member for a couple of months now, but since most of my questions were answered somewhere on the forum I had no need to post anything until now. I am pretty skeptical about PE because I only seem to be getting negative effects, so I hope that perhaps you could help me out a bit so that I can continue my PE journey and reach my goals (which are pretty modest I would guess).
I have been doing PE (newbie routine) on and off (mostly off) for a couple of months now. When I first started in July, I noticed a big vain popped out near my glans (I am uncut, and the vain was very noticeable when I pulled back my foreskin), I guess I overdid it although it never felt like I did. So I quit to see if it would subside. I visited a urologist who said I had nothing to worry about, and the vain become less visible through time
In October, I decided to try again, but soon I noticed decreased nite and morning wood as well as difficulty keeping an erection while having sex so I stopped again (as was advised in one of sparkyx articles). About a month ago my morning wood came back and I decided to give it another go. After reading a little bit about the bathmate, I purchased one and started doing the newbie routine in the shower, but even milder so not to overtrain. My routine consisted of 5 minutes manual stretching and 5 minutes of wet jelqing, and ended with 10 minutes of light pumping. I noticed that my erections were much harder than before (something I had also noticed the first time I started PE in July), but now my morning wood was irregular and I did not necessarily take this as a negative PI because my erections were harder. After a week or two of PE I started seeing big veins on the sides of my shaft and at the top of my penis. Moreover, I have also noticed that I can easily develop a nasty turkey neck which I really don’t want and these last couple of days my erections have been worse (no morning wood, but still pretty hard erections). So now for my questions.
1) To avoid the turkey neck, could I hold the skin from my balls back when performing an overhand grip jelq? So when stroking with the right, my left hand would hold the skin from my ballsack back and this (I think) could potentially diminish the chance of a turkey neck. Or would this technique not gorge enough blood towards the glans ? What are your thoughts?
2) Why is my EQ so irregular? Most guys on Thunders are raving about more erections, more nite and morning wood etc. But for me it seems to have a negative effect overall. My routine is already very mild, so what could it be?
3) Any other comments, advise etc would be greatly appreciated!
I realize this thread is ridiculously long, but I really want to continue doing PE and gain, so any help would be great!