I just tell my wife I don’t like it bushy and “growing up the tree”!! So I started to use Nair and have gotten her to do the same. She used to be a little bit uptight about this kind of stuff, but as we age…49&43…she is getting WAY less inhibited. Kids growing up and moving out has really impacted our sex life in a killer way.
When I first started pe she was absolutely against it. I think she was trying to encourage me about my size back then (6.5X4.75). Because of that I did pe VERY sporadically but gained 1/2 length and 1/4 girth in secret. I am a solid 7x5 now. She noticed the gradual change. She made little comments and suspected I worked out, but never came right out and had much of a discussion about it. Lately though, I bring it up a lot and tell her when our last kid moves out I will be hitting it hard. She just laughs such comments off and says that I am being silly. In the past she would have been a little irritated, she now tries to “act” irritated. I tease her about that. She has not gotten to the place (yet) where she is openly cheering me on, but no doubt that day is coming. When I say that I am going to start hitting it hard in August (last one leaves for school) she is intrigued a bit but then says I’m being silly. This with a grin on her face.
I have also said that because I am 6’2” and weigh 240 that I want my unit to appear more proportionate to my size. She can’t really say too much about that as she is large breasted and probably figures that she is stacked, and I want to be hung…what do I care if my husband has a bigger dick?
I guess I said all of this to say that if she thinks the hair makes you self-conscience a little bit, that may change things in her mind. If it is what YOU prefer then why not? Tell her you don’t like how much hair you have so you want to change it up a bit. My wife has been getting more and more chilled about such things. She recently started using the Nair and now takes all of her hair off. She has done so because the last few years I have said I want it that way. We would trim her up very short in the past but something changed in her and she is like “whatever you want baby is fine with me”. She also is WAY more sexual than in the past. Not that things weren’t awesome…we’ve been married 24 years and the sex has never been better. It’s just that now I have to pinch myself to make sure I’m not dreaming as she is beautiful with a great body and has embraced her sexuality. She says that when she doesn’t have to worry about a kid walking in on us…it is GAME ON!!! Lucky ME!!