Was I being extremely dumb? (penis size insecurity thread)
I don’t really know where to start this stuff…so I’ll let it go here.
I joined Thunder’s around an year and a half ago. Being the information maniac that I was…I read all that I could. Also I got caught up in all these adds and posts on forums by women who claimed stuff like “under 7 no way” , “size doesn’t matter, yeah right”
My already altered ego from a rejection… made me think that’s why I don’t have the confidence with women…cause my size is only like 5.5-6 x 5.1.
I was like… “I’ll do this and I’ll get the confidence and then women will be into me.”
I don’t have to say that this stuff actually made me kinda needy… and an underlying insecurity was haunting me… I tried to mask my insecurities with PUA stuff…many of you American guys know what I’m talking about. But that stuff makes you even needier… makes you think you gotta do something special….thus makes you extremely needy.
My question is… was it really something normal? Stressing yourself and feeling small at my size? Isn’t this really just in our heads… Haven’t I done unnecessary damage to myself and cultivating an unnecessary insecurity?
Aren’t there lots of guys out there at that size doing great and having fun?
See, when I was all stressed about dick size…I was finding a million websites and stuff supporting my limiting belief. After I let go…for whatever reason I would find another million saying it’s not that much of a problem. Believing is seeing.
Now what I hear is that….yes, size really matters….because if you say it doesn’t…that means a micropenis is equal to a 7x5.5 …which is not really right… I believe when women say “size matters”…they refer to “Don’t be small-tiny.” I keep hearing women say average is fine…
Did I just mess up my college years for nothing? Most likely…
I read a while ago some posts by some guys at my size who were doing great with girls…. Now I met a buncha guys who actually claimed to be bellow average and they were having gfs and stuff.
I come to realize that I really messed up a lot … and blew lots of chances… Don’t do the same…