Was I being extremely dumb? (penis size insecurity thread)

Haha, true strap up and keep it safe (how could I forget) LoL

I have gone through kinda the same phase as you iSnare, but at a slightly different route.

My small penis self esteem actually began within my family. I have heard through all of my childhood and beyond, that big penises runs in the family. My father has one, my brother has one, and a few scattered back the bloodline has them. So, when I went into my teen years with “only” 6.5 inches, which didn’t grow, I knew that it wasn’t enough. Why would my family been so proud of big penises if it wasn’t something to it? To add to it, I connected my brother and my fathers popularity among women with big penises.

The insecurity grew further when I started to join sexual communities at 18-19 years of age. EVERY SINGLE WOMAN and couple wanted to meet guys with a minimium of 8 inch, preferably larger. The gathered insecurity was impossible to fight, the evidence was too strong. My insecurities didn’t really go away before I reached my first goal at 7.5 inch.

with the right approach of therapy, I might have snapped out of it. But I choose to terminate the problem instead of accepting it, (As I still today see the perks of a bigger unit) and I haven’t looked back since.

Yep, yep, yeppers.

Size matters, but not in the way that many guys think it does.

when a woman tell about 8 inches at true is a very 6.5-7 inches because the woman sovraextimate the lenght always, because they measure the lenght with your hand and your hand is more little than the hand of a man. So when a woman say that “the perfect size for her is 8 inch” is a VERY 6.5-7 inches ( little number of woman prefer VERY 8 inches but there are a little number, the size queens).

Women love big cocks.

For this reason there is thunder.

iamaru,

Yet threads like this Celebrity Women Discuss Penis Size can confuse a guy.

Do you have another perspective over "size matters but not the way most guys think" or you kind of have the same belief as I mentioned earlier?

Holy shit!

That was quite a thread Idare, but dont read much into it. I didn’t care enough to read the whole thing, but I saw probably ten lies in that thread. Like Iamaru said it doesn’t matter like we think it does.

Start PEing and maybe when you have an 8 inch cock…It will still matter. We are men, and if it isn’t 8x6 and 7 inches flaccid we will never feel great about it. :D

I find it arousing with that kind of sexual women who find it arousing being stretched out and bottomed out to the max. So I don’t really care about all the women saying that it’s “technique” this and “size doesn’t matter” that. I guess my preference is more a physical domination thing, or, having something that they crave that few can give them, that YOU can give them. And also, a girl that get turned on by a big cock, must be sexual, right? And actually get turned on by the fact that a big thing is entering her. I want that quality in a woman, and I guess that’s why I want to target the size queens :D

That celebrity thread is something else. Reminds me of that lady gaga interview.

There are a lot of lies. For instance: Bruce Willis is known for having a small penis - this is frequently brought up on the Howard Stern show by both celebrities, and celeb hookers. I can’t place the movie, but I’ve seen Willem Dafoes flaccid and either he is another mandingo or that source is BS. There were several more, but I’m not going to go back and check.

Apparently Ewan Macgregor has one of the larger hollywood penis’ though. That’s been confirmed by several hollywood celebs, and insiders.

Please don’t think I’m obsessed with this guys. I used to be, but care more about my own now, than others, lol.

I agree that allot of mens issues are all mental. I can use my self as an example, I have not started PE exercises yet however I want to; even though I am not small. I am actual above average by a fair amount. My penis right now is 7 3/4 -8 inch while erect however my penis curves downwards not upwards ( this is a result of many years of compression shorts while in sports) which I would like straighten out, to me my penis seems allot smaller because of my angle and the curve when I’m looking at it. My girlfriend thinks it’s big but it’s about confidence, at times I just feel awkward with the way my penis curves, I also wouldn’t mind adding some girth because I’m only about 5 inch’s around, which to me looks slightly awkward considering the length is so much bigger then the girth. Any way men keep in mind you are definitely bigger then you look, just have confidence.

Those 8x5’s look really long.

Size matters, but nowhere near near as much Size Queen guys seem to think. It is more like Goldylock and the three cocks. To small, to big, and just right.

To most women it is an absolute deal breaker if your wang is to small. But “to small” verges on micro-penis sized. Few women are going to become upset because your penis is “only” 5.5”s long. If they somehow got to pick probably they will go with 7”s long rather than 5”s long. But girth would be more important as would height, not bald, personality, good cook, $, likes cats, etc., etc..

Then too, plenty of ladies will actually look at 10X7”s as being just as much of a deal breaker as 4X3.5”s. :eek: Oh hell no! No way you are even getting anywhere near me with that thing. You would split me in half!

Size matters, but nowhere near as much as Size Queen guys seem to think. It is more like Goldylock and the three cocks. To small, to big, and just right.

To most women it is an absolute deal breaker if your wang is to small. But “to small” verges on micro-penis sized. Few women are going to become upset because your penis is “only” 5.5”s long. If they somehow got to pick probably they will go with 7”s long rather than 5”s long. But girth would be more important as would height, not bald, personality, good cook, $, likes cats, etc., etc..

Then too, plenty of ladies will actually look at 10X7”s as being just as much of a deal breaker as 4X3.5”s. :eek: Oh hell no! No way you are even getting anywhere near me with that thing. You would split me in half!

I agree with iamaru. An experienced young lady I once spent a lot of time with told me the only guy she ever refused had a penis the size of her baby finger. Her baby finger was quite small. She also mentioned guy who was, apparently the size of her arm…and proceeded to say that she liked his personality, but it took too long to get lubed up and accommodate his size. Sure there are size queens, but the true size queens, that need it super large are likely not as common as so many guys want to think.