Want to get bigger for GF

I’ve met her, someone that I like a lot and can very easily see loving down the line. We met in English class and we both originally disliked eachother. We decided to do some homework together and we just started hanging out more. We would hang out in my apartment and get high and watch funny videos. One night, me and my friend were doing DXM and she was just chilling with us. I jumped into her lap because I was in an extremely cuddly mood and she started scratching my back and my head with her little hands. It felt amazing.

For the next month we would hang out in my apartment, cook together, watch funny videos, watch The Office and cuddle, that’s it. No sex, nothing sexual. Just cuddling for hours and listening to music. It was amazing. I knew she liked me but I didn’t like her back, and I told her I had no feelings for her. We continued to just be friends and have our weird cuddle relationship.

One night, after hanging out for hours and making yummy food, we both headed back to my bed and laid down to go to sleep. I would usually give her a back massage, or scratch her back or do other things but something just came over me. I started kissing her neck and being sexual. We had sex, and it was amazing. She was extremely tight and came really quickly. She laid there for 5 minutes recovering from her orgasm and I just sat with her and kissed her neck and touched her. She told me, and I believe her with absolute certainty, because we are completely honest to each other, that it was the best sex she’s ever had. And we continued to have amazing sex.

As we stand right now, I love her, and she doesn’t know. It’s impossible to explain in text how well we get along, and how she makes me feel, and I make her feel. Our relationship is amazing. She licks my cheek when I come pick her up. I nibble and suck her fingers. I haven’t seen her in a week and she just sent me a text saying she had a jacket of mine and it smelled like my place and she liked smelling it because it made her feel better about not seeing me for a while. I want to be her everything, and this is where the issue is. Of every single girl I’ve ever had sex with, about 8, I’ve been the biggest. I’ve always received a comment, the sex has always been good. But I finally find someone worth it, someone who I like a lot and someone I want to be their everything for, and they have an ex with a huge penis.

Why?

It hurts, it hurts more than something as trivial as a penis should, and it bothers me beyond belief.

I’m 7.4 inches, NBPEL, 8 inches BPEL, 4.5 EG.

Her ex is the same length, but the width of her wrist, I’d estimate, 5.5 EG.

I’ve done the newbie routine for months and I feel I’m ready to move on to other exercises. I’m a big fan of Clubber, I’ve read about 80% of his post history, as his girth gains are inspiring. My question is, from people who have gained girth, after experimenting and finding what works, what would you advise? I’m already buying a pump and a clamp, should I throw in Ulis? Or orange bends? And will massaging my dick using that fire-whatever(I forgot what it’s called) method help discoloration? How often should I do it? Should I beat up my dick, or go one day one off?

She also is fully supporting me with PE and we plan to play around with the pump. How is sex after pumping your penis? Or clamping? Has anyone tried it?

I’ve been keeping a log of my size and I plan on posting a log on here when I find out what I need to do. I want to build on the collected wisdom of people who have been successful. Once I figure out my routine, I will share what’s worked and what hasn’t as I go along. This minor detail may not seem like a big deal, but it’s something that I think everyone here can understand. Being the biggest, being her best, having a huge dick. I want to be that for her.

I know I have a lot of questions, thank you.

Uh… if you’re having the best sex she’s ever had with her… be careful. Don’t screw it up with getting too aggressive with your PE routine.

TAKE YOUR TIME. You’ve GOT decent size and you’re HAVING great sex. Don’t risk that by trying to do too much too soon.

You’re thinking about the Firegoat Roll: “firegoat roll” discoloration prevention, control, and removal

You already have plenty of length.

Pumping, and clamping will give you extra girth.
Throw in some sets of semi-erect jelks in between pumping sets.

I haven’t had actual sex after pumping, but I know what arousal in a pumped condition is like.
If you take your time and get a good inflation to maybe packing a 1.75” tube, you will have a very big dick.
It will feel sort of soft, and insensitive, but with proper arousal you will get good and hard.
You may be able to last longer with a pumped dick, since it tends to reduce your sensitivity.

my man, I have the same problem that you mentioned but with some variations, I also want to get more girth, I curently do dry jelq exercises only, but Im planing to buy a pump since everybody says that it is a nice complemente and a huge help with girth gains.

Im currently 5.6” EG and 5.2” MSEG, my goal is to reach 6” MSEG. I currently have 5 months of PE training and Im focusing on girth mainly.

Good luck and Im sure youll be bigger than anyone if you could reach 6” MSEG.

Thanks! I know, I already completely bottom out. I have to go slow and work it inside before I can pick up speed. If I go to quickly off the bat, I can feel myself hit her cervix. As twisted as it sounds, I wouldn’t mind a bit more length, as once she’s accommodated to my penis, I can go entirely inside of her.

Agreed, how often should I pump and clamp? Should I clamp first, then pump? How long should a session last?

And thanks for the information!

Thanks! Good luck to you as well!

To maximise gain potential you should start gently and progress gradually over the course of many months to more intense exercises. That means the beginning of your girth orientated program may only be increasing your erection quality when you jelq, from 20-40%, to 40-70%. That alone should start to get your girth moving up.

I suggest when you start clamping, you begin with manual clamping (using your fingers as a clamp), and only for short periods of time (1 minute for example). Then you could add in O-bends which are great for girth gains if you can do them with the perfect erection level (very engorged yet malleable and non-rigid). Then you would progress to some gentle erect squeezes such as Ulis. Start very gently and gradually increase intensity over months.

Eventually you will want to be on a full clamping/pumping routine with other intense girth exercises like Horse 440 squeezes.

Be careful with your unit above all else!

Good luck.

Wow man, I can tell that shit you typed came from the heart I am happy for you, it always seems the one girl you fall for has the hung ex I have been there.

I totally agree with man of 10.

yeees! I started with 50% erect jelqs, I currently train at 70/80% dry jelqs and I’m seriously thinking in adding some jelq squeezes to the routine

Thanks for the advise! I’ll be sure to gradually build up!

I’ve been jelqing sort of strangely I suppose. I start flaccid, and jelq until I’m hard, I wait until my boner subsides, then I start again. Is this strange? I mean, I’m forcing blood into my penis, shouldn’t it slowly get harder? I’m not sure how I could jelq purely at one erection level.

I say you pump before sex as often as possible and wear a cock ring. If she’s cool with it then it’s a good way to gain girth and have a tonne of fun without having to dedicate time to set routine each day/week.

Cirrow Just something to note. I’m exactly the same girth as you and I’ve found that the medium clamp does not go small enough to really squeeze my girth (the whole idea of clamping). But the small clamp is a little tight I think and a pain to get on. Anyone else have this problem and a solution/alternative method/equipment?

Hey, man, and welcome!

You sound motivated for PE. However, as someone who’s been around for a while, a couple of points of advice:

1. Do PE for YOU and never anyone else. There’s no need to put that kind of pressure on yourself.

2. Take it easy, especially with the girth exercises and especially in the beginning. Pumping, clamping and bends are exercises that require quite the experience before beginning. Mainly because when you have the experience it’s easier to read the signs you get from your dick (are you over working, etc). Just start slow, don’t do monster clamping sets from the start, etc. You get the idea.

Other than that, good luck and it sounds like a fine gal you’ve found :) .

Listen up, dude… You can increase your girth by pumping.

Hey Cirrow, it took me a while before I started doing PE everyday. I conditioned my unit to being tougher then it originally was. It takes many months of clamping to do it everyday. I remember when I first started clamping it was intense. I would do it every other day or something. I didn’t start gaining a lot untill I did it everyday; it won’t necessarly be like that for you or others since everyone is different.

19052010: Don’t use the small clamp. That thing is way too small for any penis, it is a micropenis. For the medium size clamps, what you do is you put padding material inside the clamp, like a strip of mouse pad or felt adhesive strips that go under furniture is what I used, which work great; this will make the clamp tighter for you.

I know what your saying about the clamp being too big without padding because when I first started I found it slightly a little to big because I would be able to use all the notches on the clamp.

cheers clubber, probably a stupid question and I dont intend clamping just yet. nice to know I’m not major small