Very Insecure of my penis

I’m new here and I sure hope I stay focus and dedicated to my PE and it works for me. My penis is 5.75x”4” and most of the time it makes feel like I have the smallest penis in the world. I know I don’t but I still believe it and it bothers me sooo much. Knowing that nearly everyone’s penis is thicker than mine drives me crazy. If there is anything I hope to get out of this, I hope iit’s girth. This is my second week and I’ve missed some days because I can’t get over 50% erect for some reason. I never had that problem. Wish me luck guys. If there is anyone that wants to be my close friend to talk and what not to help me through this then hit me up. Hopefully someone in the same boat or a mentor to envy to make myself stick with it.

Just train and keep constant and you will see that a major increase is possible. Don’t lose hope, you are on your way to obtain a bigger and healthier penis :)

I’ve been there, never give up. You will gain if you want.

Hi joker1967 !

I am a newbie too, and I got same thinking as you sometimes about my sex unit, more about girth, this is maybe cause I’ve seen too much porn video :-/ and also m cause my ex girlfriend tell me about her ex with big dick so I was like destroyed in my virility, Anyway I starting PE since one week and I learn everyday more about.I wish you great gain, we are in a same boat ;-)

90% of the times girls don’t have idea the damage they are causing with those statements, I mean I’m sure they don’t do it on purpose, but next time I suggest you as soon as a girl start talking about ex’s sizes, you start telling her about this girl with the most wonderful body and a VERY tight vagina and the wild sex you had together. Don’t be a dickhead about it, just tell her with an enthusiast tone, not a vindicative tone. You can bet your ass she will refrain to get angry because she just tasted her own medicine and from now on she knows it’s not such a smart thing to do.

Again I’m sure they don’t do it to hurt you ( the vast majority), but they need to learn your boundaries.

Yup I had 3 gF with this nasty habit, the first one I was very young and went numb and said nothing ( and I’m still paying the psychological consequences 20 years later), the other 2 were served with my story of this wonderful girl queen of kegels…lol. ( oh and they exist , yup..tigh tigh tight..ohh God so good) Oh boy they dropped the subject faster than light never to speak about it again.

With age they learn not to be bitches, so this habit goes away…fortunately..lol

p.s in case you were the one asking for info about xs..then I guess you learned your lesson :D

I am a n00b as well, and a little insecure of my package, however I know things will improve after viewing what people on this site have done. I am really impressed and looking forward to the results. I am looking for more length and girth, to me it looks inferior for both lol

If your looking for a friend to keep motivated let me know.. I think I could use the push as well.

Well put!

There’s many stories here about guys that were in your boat, but have changed their outlook and confidence due to the increase in size of their junk.

I’m new to this as well, but I feel very confident it’s going to work and work well. If one thing doesn’t work, I will go on to the next. The way I see it perseverance is key. I have to make a conscious effort to avoid overtraining.

Slow and steady is better than nothing.

Dude relax, Pe works. Just keep it constant and stick to the newbie routine for a while and you can do this!

Best of luck man!

I can say that you may experience some downhills in your PE career but you’ll get over them and you will grow! Best of luck!

5.75x”4” isn’t small but you’ll get there just be patient read up and relax. PE isn’t an overnight fix it is a long journey

Yes MarPe for sure you’re right.More than that I have seen in my sex life experience with women that everybody used to say that size, and girth doesn’t make any differences (complexed guy should stop reading right now!) but I often ‘ve heard from girl in the bed then we talked truthly, they like when is big, I think it’s not especially about physical performance but more about porn fantasme (yes nowadays girls watch porn! ).So she sometimes talk about your dick size like she talk about shoes color and size.

Relax j0ker1967 there are plenty of guys in your situation. And they have fulfilling sex lives without ever doing PE… and now you are doing PE, so you’re one step ahead of those guys! Perserverance and careful PE-ing and soon you will be bigger.

As for your erection issue about not getting higher than 50% erection level, is this during PE or when not doing PE? If it is doing PE then relax and reduce the amount or intensity until you get the erection level you want. If it is not during PE then the same advice. It may also be due to mental anxiety if you are in such a state, so did I also mention… relax?! :)

Motivation comes from within. Once you make PE a habit, then you will soon find it easy to maintain a routine. How about starting a progress thread?

Welcome aboard. Good luck with your new PE journey! :)

Like the other guys told me, now I will tell you. No need to worry, it’s all in the head. Plus when you get some gains and start to PE for real your size and the way you think about your dick will change.

Of course, the same way I would always prefer a very tight pussy!
But guess what , it’s not always available the same way a big dick is not always available. Does that mean I don’t fuck regular or even a bit large pussy?
Nope, I think sex is great even with a large pussy because a woman is not only good because her pussy is perfect for my dick, there’s so much stuff to enjoy that her large pussy is really not that important. In fact I had a GF for 3 years and she was quite large down there compared to other girls (using big objects since she was very young , not a great idea). But we’ve been together for 3 years and the sex was good and she was everything for me.

See where I’m going with this?

The problem is that 99% of the guys here (included me) are obsessed perfectionist with a distorted idea about sex and we want what we think is the best thing for a woman.. a big dick.

I can show you dozens of forum for women where there are way way more posts about women who can’t enjoy sex with their partners because he’s too big than those where he’s too little. 99% of the posts about small penises are from men seeking advices from women and they are regularly told that it’s not a big problem even when it’s really small. I’m not kidding , these are anonymous women, they are free to tell the hard cold truth. just try to google and see for yourself.

But what do we chose to read/listen carefully and print in our mind? Just the statements that reinforce our insecurity, looking always for that negative thing…aha told ya.. they all want a big dick! Amazing how low self-esteem finds a way to rape you in the ass. I’ve been told several time in the heat of the sexual act that my dick is big,(when is average), but instead of enjoying my girl telling me she could feel me so good I always decided to think she was bullshitting me, because I don’t deserve it. Fuck me and my insecurity.

Now we want to add 1 inch or 2 because that makes us feel better about ourself , and that’s ok. But we must not forget that 99% of the rest of the male population with our sizes are out there having a quite regular sex life. Yup they can’t work in the porn world but they just don’t give a flying F, they know perfection doesn’t exist.