Vagina

My woman just had her second child. When will the vagina go back to normal? I am 7.5 BP(7nbp) with 5 1/3 EG, I still bottom her out, but it feels like a little fish swimming in a large wide pond(if you know what I mean). In the past I had to ease it into her.

How long ago was the birth?

Zane,

It was almost 4 month’s ago

It will eventually get less canyon-like over time (four months is not all that long). She can speed up the process by using a resistance device and doing vaginal exercises, it is far enough along now that she can safely do that.

Zane,

Thank you for the response. What is a resistance device?

I would recommend either the Kegelmaster 2000 or the Gyneflex device (I personally prefer the Gyneflex). Vaginal cone weights will also work, but they are lots more expensive and don’t have the range.

Of course this is a very delicate topic to broach. She’s probably nursing too, so her interest in sex at all is probably rock-bottom. Be grateful you are having sex.

Hmm you see its not just the vagina expanding but also the pelvic bones and the floor expand during pregnancy. Apart from tightening her vagina with what zane suggested working out in the gym helps too. Lots of lateral leg raises, Side extensions, Leg raises(for the abs), Squatting etc . Working at the gym will ensure that her pelvic bones and floor settle back in the original position

Generally a woman with a four-month-old baby told to start working out at the gym is going to grab the nearest frying pan and start swinging. I’m just saying.

Thats so funny because the second the man gets out of shape, due to working to support the family he gets the ‘gym talk’

I’m sorry, but the man is not waking up every hour and a half to breastfeed the baby. I think actually there’s something in the lactation hormones, if I remember correctly, that helps the pelvis snap back into shape. Bones get all spongy during pregnancy, it’s a very weird feeling.

I want to personally strongly recommend the GynoFlex over the KegalMaster2000. For my wife, the KegalMaster was pinchy, tough to clean, and worst of all eternally procrastinated. In other words, flat out never used due to it’s less than friendly design. I would second Zane’s preference of the GynoFlex. It is simple, the fulcrum is more anatomically well placed, easy to clean, and it just doesn’t look as “scary”. Your wife would be able to relate to what I mean by scary after a good pinch or two. I believe that if your wife faithfully used the GynoFlex for 6-8 months (you’ll probably notice a difference alot earlier) she may possibly be even more responsive than ever. (When nursing is over).

My wife and I have had 4 children, all born at home naturally. Each one has been nursed a minimum of 18 months, in fact, we nurse exclusive to both food and water for the first full year. Breast milk and breast milk only. Just 3 months ago, we stopped nursing our 4th and my wife is definitely more responsive (even aggressive) than ever. I believe even exceeding our first year of marriage.

So, fear not my friend. But, at the same time, (I’m sure this is unnecessary to say but just in case) make sure through your impatience you don’t sow seeds into her that choke out the good fruit that will naturally re-blossom in time. In other words, pressure, complaint, criticism, and comments cleverly conceived (by you) yet secretly perceived (by her) as any of the aforementioned.

The single most important reason for a woman to restore her pelvic floor muscles is for health, recuperation, and preparation for the potential of a subsequent pregnancy. Four months is a great time to begin/accelerate that process.

Yes, the Kegelmaster is VERY pinchy. I just get raked over the coals for only recommending the Gyneflex, so I try to mention both so it doesn’t sound like I’m pimping a product.

“My woman just had her second child. When will the vagina go back to normal?”

The vagina is like an engine block, the first child was like the first engine bore-out/rebuild. The second child like another engine bore-out and rebuild. Engines generally have 10, 20, 30 and 40 thousandths overbores for pistons and rings. It’ll never be factory fresh, but it’ll run for a little while longer. Two children, no offense intended, but she’s been bored out like an old Chevy. ;)

Classy with a capital “C”! It always makes my girl feel special when I compare her to a car, lol.

Is that why your avatar also has no time to trim her snatch, I am going to puke.