Quick question. I love the idea of the Vacads with the legstrap, waist strap, neck strap etc.. But whenever I dismount the silicone/cap, my tip is all swollen and deformed looking. I’m actually afraid to use it over the next year, two years, however long, due to the fear of PERMANENT DEFORMATION to my perfect looking glans. There is no blistering or pain WHATSOEVER, just SWOLLEN and mutated/deformed looking. Will this cause permanent deformation to the glans? .I’d rather have a shorter unit than an ugly unit.