I am new to this website, but I looked around and I’m not sure I found something that really helped me out. My story could be a bit weird, but since I finally found a website like this, I’d like to ask, because I was hoping there was a way to correct it, but I was scared to try anything without finding out if I was gonna fuck it up more..
I’m 18 years old (almost 19). I have a downward bend in my penis, it is only noticeable when erect. The unusual thing about it is that the bend is just out from the very base, so it causes my erection to point at a slight downward angle. My penis is straight aside from this bend, but I’m not fond of it hanging down. I am sure of how it happened. When I was younger I felt very awkward about having an erection so I was very eager to hide it, and unfortunately one of the biggest things was that I shared a bed and that really made me to hide it. I remember that it used to be straight, but it feels like it’s been bent like this forever. I don’t remember when I really noticed that it was bent, but it was at a fairly young age and when I realized it was hanging downward I wondered why and when it hit me, I stopped “hiding” it because I was scared it’d get worse.
So when my penis is erect it is actually a little below parallel to the ground. The angle bothers me a bit because I feel like it should at LEAST parallel. The thing that bothers me the most though, is that I feel like my erections aren’t really that hard, and I’ve tested little things out of curiosity.. When I’m erect my penis can move around in all directions very easily, which I don’t feel like it’s supposed to do that.. The penis itself doesn’t bend very easily except where the “bend” is. So it can bend downward at that point pretty easily.. It bothers me because I don’t want to have trouble when I end up having sex (I’m a virgin.) One thing I’ve tried that makes my penis way harder while in erection is “bending” a bit against where the curve is. If I place my thumb of one hand right above the the curve and pull my penis upward so that it’s completely straight, it gets probably 50% harder. The only other way I’ve seen it be any harder was one time after I tried jelqing. It was my first time every jelqing and I’ve only tried it once so far, but after I was done I tried to get it to full erection just out of curiosity and it seemed bigger and it was definitely harder.
My questions after telling the story are these:
1) Are there any stretches that could possibly straighten the bend out and allow me to rise to or above parallel while erect?
2) Will jelqing help the curve at all?