Two newbie questions

Just started PE’in again yesterday. I always fall off the boat a week in. Back on the newbie routine.

I have 2 big veins on the left side of my shaft and no matter which hand I jelq with it kinda bothers em. I loosened my grip a little but I feel like it’s too loose in order to force blood. Second I have a hard time getting a good grip at the base because of the extra skin from my shaft to my balls. Also I’m only 5” erect length so 60-80% erection state is not much working with.thanks

Dude, try working with 4” erect, then talk about not having much to work with. Anyway, with that extra skin, when you start each jelq motion, you only really need one hand to jelq, so use the other hand to move the skin back. That’s what I used to do. Now I just say fuck it and kinda drag the skin for a little bit. It’ll get out of your grip eventually.

edit: There was even a dude who did it with even just a 2” erect length I believe. I can’t remember his exact length or name, but look up Bennett or Benet or any other variation/spelling that wouls give the same sound, if I am making any sense at all.

Pulling the balls back with one hand and jelqing with the other for 10-20 reps - then switching hands - is a great way to make sure you get the full shaft into it. Also, I think stretching is much more important in the early “newbie” days.

Cool, should I just keep up with the 10-30second stretches? DO you think I should up it a little? I’m looking for length gains first my girth is like 4.6 inches, which isn’t huge but not bad compared to my 5” length.

Jelqing is sure a hassle, until of course you get the hang of it. It took me about 2-4 months before I think I finally had it down. It is a tricky ol’ thing to get it right, but persevere and try some of those great ideas already posted. You will reap the rewards. Good luck.

Standard manual stretches should be held for 30-60 seconds.