Originally Posted by Timmy24
I don’t have any problem finding it when I’m pissing or after I’m done, but when I try any other time it seems like theres two muscles between the anus and scrotum and I’m clenching the one closer to the anus so Ill just have to start doing it with an erection. Also since I’ve started doing kegels it seems like how long I can last has actually decreased, should I be actively trying to clench the muscle to stop cumming or should it do it by itself?
If you’re doing kegels during intercourse that may speed the ejaculation process, especially during the early stages of muscle development. Because your PC will tire, which can no longer hold the load. You can clench your PC during sex only after you make it really strong.
What you need is a period of solid training to slowy develop the muscle. It may seem like you’re not clampig good enaugh, because your muscle is currently weak. As time passes, it will strengthen, and will feel much better. So you should just continue.
Start: 6.9 BPEL x 4.9 (17,5 x 12,5 cm)
Now: 7.7 BPEL x 5.7 (19,5 x 14,5 cm)