Trouble sticking to a plan

Hey everyone,

I’ve been a member of the site for a little while now, reading articles, advice, etc. But I feel that I really need the support of a community now in my PE quest. It’s not something that I can go around telling my friends and family that I’m doing, as it’s not exactly socially acceptable to talk about your junk. I’ve been trying to PE off and on for almost a year now. I would go well for a couple of weeks, then I’d just make excuses and my routine would just fizzle out.

This is something that I really want to continue to do. I admit, it’s probably an ego thing, but I’ll be transferring to a four year college soon and living in a dorm (I’m almost 22) and I wouldn’t mind it if the female population was talking about me. Wouldn’t mind it one bit, ha.

Anyway, here are my starting stats:

BPEL: 6 3/4 “

EG: 4 5/8 “

I guess my question to you all is, what motivates you to follow your routine? (Yes, I know getting a big cock is number 1) What motivates you day in and day out, to decide to do some PE instead of doing something else? That’s where I have the most trouble.

Anyway, look forward to starting this quest with you all.

Welcome and may the gains begin.

Where do you find the motivation

Without going into detail, not the last girl I dated, but a girl I have been talking to on and off since the end of last summer (she and her bf broke up), been wanting this girl for a while, went on a couple dates with her when I was back home (only got to play with her tits and heavy make out session, she wouldn’t let me go further). She just started texting me again (I’m trying to play it cool right now, not much I can do), but I know she has a guy who I’m going to assume is a fuck buddy (or friends with benefits, whatever you want to call it), since her status on facebook is still listed as single, but her skank friend occasionally tags her in a pic where her and slimeball are together. I know of slimeball and the only thing he has going on is, well, you guessed it. I need the equipment to compete, thats the bottom line, and I know a miracle isn’t going to happen by the time I come back home, but I am making steady progress (BPFSL measured today at 8”, apparently that means gains are in the pipe).

I’m going to take this girl, and outshine mr. dick brain, who may very well be a member of thunders. While I’m only attracted to 9-10 alpha females, in my mind’s eye, this girl is the alpha among alphas. This is what currently drives me, in another 6 months that may change, but I’ll find another boogie man to keep me mentally fucked up enough to continue to push through and become the best me I can. Failure is not an option, I don’t believe in it.

Oh, and for those of you’s that keep up with hardbodyPEers fascinating stories, this was the girl who I caught staring at my pants that one night (the way the pants were, didn’t look like I was packing much). That was the last time we hung out, but the fact that she still texts me, and gets flirty, stilll leaves hope, that hopefully, I can open up the barn door and blow away expectations (they must be really low right now. I think she still talks to me cause she maybe sees me as “husband material”, so she wants to keep my on the backburner from now. Hopefully I change her mentality, I just gotta make some gains, then get her in the dam sack. I’m pretty sure she don’t want to end up with Mr. dick brain, and we’re both in the latter half of our 20s).

OP, you should find something, real or imaginary, paranoia, whatever, to motivate you. Maybe thats not how you function, but thats how I am, always fighting to prove people wrong, been that way my whole life, people have always doubted me for whatever reason, and I’ve almost always come through and dissapointed them.

I went home not long ago (before she started texting me again, although even if she had, I doubt she’d wanted to have hung out) and nobody knows I PE, I keep it on the hush hush for obvious reasons (taboo, people’d think I’m crazier than they already think). I wait until my old man goes to bed, and I’d literally do my routine in the middle of the night, fuck privacy issues, I work around them. My dad must think I’m just a lazy fuck when I’m home, little does he know.

Hey Hardbody, I feel you man.

When I was younger and dumber, I dated a girl for a couple of years. I lost my virginity to her and probably made things way too serious for the age I was (we’re talking 17-18.) Anyway, when we broke up she had sex with another guy who had I guess a reputation for having a good sized dick. Apparently she had drunkenly told him that I had a small dick (which I know I don’t, but it still hurts to hear your ex say something like that) and the guy decided to go out of his way to try and humiliate me about it. I guess that’s part of where my frustration stems from, but hey, I’ve never been able to tell that story to anyone.

Thanks guys, I’m gonna go warm up now.

Just don’t be like the guys on here who have been members for five years, and are now starting their PE seriously. You either want a bigger dick, or you just like to think of the “what ifs”. What ifs won’t make it bigger. I have trouble with committing to routines as well, but I just do it.

Hey iroc,

You have good starting stats already, so just do the newbie routine with some consistency and you will probably see enough progress to keep you going for awhile. You might find you have enough already, but everyones mind is different. You don’t have to get fancy, just jelq and stretch a little on a regular basis. This will get you motivated enough to see the possibilities.

This is for Hardbody,

I spent all of my twenties chasing the alpha females for some reason. Looking back, they were even more unsure and insecure than I was at the time. This chick is probably looking for someone who can string two normal sentences together without embarassing her with a group of people, rather than a big dick. You’ll probably see her hook up with an older man in the near future (with more than one weeks’ supply of money).

That is fucked up, that right there would be my motivation, grow yourself a giant rod and give it to that guys mom.

Start you up a progress thread I would love to follow your journey.

Perhaps, it has something to do with her social circle also. She don’t have many friends of her own, as alpha as she is (she did in high school). She hangs out with one girl, who got fat and apparently miserable (fat girl don’t like me, but did in high school, I think she sees me as a threat to her utopia of having the girl I like, almost said her name, lol, go out with a loser like her, who is friends with her loser crowd, so they can be losers together). The fat girl got married and has her husband’s slimy social circle, so that is who this girl hangs out with.

I have a small social circle, I don’t like bringing her around my small social circle because as fate would have it, I have 1 friend (not what I’d call a true friend either,but I go out to the clubs with this guy, been hanging out with him periodically since elementary school), who happens to have a giant verifiable dick (goofy looking, big boned but fat poor bastard with a drug problem), and he hooked up with her back in high school (1 night, but he said he fucked her 2x in one night, and when it comes to pussy, he don’t bullshit). I don’t feel comfortable bringing her around my group of guys I hang with, considering that one friend banged her back in the day, so that creates a bit of a problem. Its not that I think she is attracted to my clown friend with the giant weiner, but I wouldn’t feel comfortable with the situation, hopefully you can understand that. Its funny cause as few friends as she has, she’s a dam socialite, always trying to be the center of attention.

I know she is attracted to me, at least a little bit. I fucked up one day, when we stopped talking before, I know I was building shit up in her head, she was flirting more and more, then I got pissed at her and boom, didn’t hear from her for a month and a half, I wasn’t about to budge, cause I know that wouldn’t work. She finally started texting me again, (she knows I’ll be coming home in a few months, I think thats why), but she isn’t quite as warm, and isn’t texting as much. So its like I’m starting from scratch again, although it eats at me knowing she is fucking such a loser. She also sees me as someone she probably wants to “end up with”, so I got those 2 things going, but I have the social circle issue I have to overcome.

Oh, as far as money goes, right now she has her parents hitting her off with money to buy shit (big ticket items, matter a fact, tomorrow or friday I expect a text to come in showing me some new expensive shit her parents are gonna buy her), so that is the one thing I don’t think she is so worried about RIGHT NOW (thats where I come in, cause its pretty certain I will be making really good money down the road, PM me for details there). Actually, dealing with this girl is making me rethink my whole theory about what it is girls really want. I know this girl likes big dicks, but she is looking for more than just that, and the fact that I believe she thinks I’m small and yet is still talking to me, tells me something. As fate would have it, we actually have a lot of shit in common, things I never thought she’d be into (actually, I can’t think of many things we don’t have in common), she knows that, so perhaps thats part of it, I don’t know.

OP, sorry, didn’t mean to hi-jack the thread. Ginzo, this weekend, I think I’ll start a thread in the love section of thundersplace, on this very topic for myself. I did my best to forget about this broad for the past month and a half, now I have a new mission. If you have any advice on overcoming the social circle, I’d love to hear about it, cause I’m not sure how I’m gonna overcome it.

This might help you in setting up a plan: Goal Setting.

Thanks for the tips guys. Not to get too deep here, but I think having a routine of any sort is going to do me a world of good. I noticed that I after I did my routine today, I felt like I had to go to the gym too. I’ve always kind of been a procrastinator, but I’m really tired of waiting for things to come to me. I want to achieve my goals and not worry about how long that might take. A goal is worthless if you aren’t ready to work for it.

I’ll try and start a progress report.

Sweet man, I’m in what the vast majority of the population would call really good shape, but to me, I’m an out of shape bum, compared to what I once was and will be again. I’ve been hitting the gym up very hard also, I think its a good idea, its all about self improvement, there are many areas we can improve on, PE and the gym are just the two physical forms of improvement that come to mind, but do remember, there is also room for mental improvement, weather that be learning how to deal with females better or exanding your knowledge (school or work, for that bigger paycheck).