Trick for edging

Hey I don’t know if any of you edge, but here’s a trick I learned that’s really helped me control my ejaculation until you really know your body well enough to hold off mentally.

If you feel like you’ve crossed the point of no return, and you will cum whether or not you touch it, grab it near the base, with index and thumb (NOT the OK grip) and wiggle it hard like you are waving it, and the feeling will go away.

Then just start jerking it again :)

I am looking for control during sex, that might be sort of difficult, especially if you aren’t the one doing the work. But it sounds interesting. I’ll give it a try. :)

Thanks for the tip. I will try it next time I jerk off :)

Sounds sort of like a rough version of ballooning, no?

Hmmm, it just might work. I getting real pissed at trying to edge then blowing my load when I don’t want to.

I’ve tried that before in the past but it never worked for me. Can’t that cause retrograde ejaculation?

I would just do a lot of kegels (like 500 a day) and you will have no problem; mix up the types of kegels too. I mean do like 100 or so quick squeezes, and then do like 100 for as long as you can hold them.. Etc.

When I started out I could only do like 100 in a day. Now, after 1 year of doing them, I can kegel all day and control ejaculation super well. I did them in the car, at work, wherever.

Retrograde ejaculation? I have an idea what that means and yes, I do think you will get it. I think after kegels it will take longer to cum on average; the reason I do kegels is to delay the onset of it.

Retrograde ejaculation occurs when the fluid to be ejaculated, which would normally exit via the urethra, is redirected towards the urinary bladder.

If it’s not the OK grip, what grip am I supposed to use with my thumb and finger?

Wiggle it? I’ll give it a shot.. But I have a feeling I’ll just be spraying cum all over the place. Don’t think wife will like that too much.

I will tray it. thanks

Nope, it didn’t work in the 2 times that I tried it.

I don’t think I explained it very well.

No it will not cause retrograde ejaculation, because you won’t bust at all. When I shake it, the nerves sort of, cool down really fast.

The key to edging is not making contact with the urethral nerve right when you are about to bust, but doing this helps shut of that feeling really quick.

You don’t use an okay grip, you just use your fingertips, and with a light touch, wave it back and forth rapidly from the base.

Also, I’ve been using this technique to help with edging, and now I’m a pro. While jerking off I can just “dry cum” as many times as I want without nutting.

So practice with this until you can control it with your internal muscles, then apply it while fucking your wife.

I’m attaching a shitty drawing of what it should look like:

So, the thumb goes on top and the index goes on the bottom? Or does the thumb go on the left/right and the index goes on the left/right?

Wave it back and forth as left and right, or up and down? How fast are you supposed to shake it? Maybe a seconds/shake formula would be good, because if I’m shaking my penis 3 times a second, I can imagine myself done with edging quite quickly.