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Trans girl penis size problems

Originally Posted by sta-kool
Great newbie routine if you haven’t seen it already:

Linear Newbie Routine

It is nice because it ramps up slowly.

See this thread for the rationale for doing such a routine:

Is starting out lesser necessarily better


Thank you for sharing this, and apologies I missed quoting and replying to it in my other post. Things have been pretty chaotic in my life lately so I haven’t had a chance to do more exercises. It took me a couple hours off and on to put together the post because my mind has been all over the place. Lots of depression, anxiety, heart break, and sleep deprivation too unfortunately. I like the stuff you linked and I’ll be sure to try it once things have settled down more.

Originally Posted by stanner
There nothing wrong with wanting to have a functional penis. I found this site for that reason and it help me so much. There so much you can do stop and reverse the symptoms of E.D. And from my reading on this forum a lot of people have gotten size back from doing P.E. To. So I believe it possible you can gain your size back also. Just my advice that journeying into P.E. Is a long slow process. I’ve been doing this for years and still learning and improving.


Thank you for the encouragement and support! I’m glad this site has helped you out too, it really is a great community I think even from the short time I’ve been here.

Originally Posted by Groundswell
Once again this community amazes me in their kindness and compassion.

Velvet, your gender identity is whatever makes you happy and whatever allows you to live your best life to your fullest potential. You are welcome here as a human being with a penis and as such are no different than any one of us. We want you to recover your confidence on the inside first and on the outside second. I don’t think there is anyone here who would experience losing an inch in length and a quarter inch in girth and not be completely bummed. Regardless of how it happened, you have all of our sympathy and support. The good thing is that if you had the size already, it’s a lot easier to get it back as all of the mechanics are still there. I lost about a half inch due to aging and a stationary job. I was able to gain that back in about 4 weeks of the newbie routine and gained a second half inch after 8 weeks. My recommendation to you would be to focus on the technique. I mean really focus your inner attention on it while you are doing it. I recommend doing it in the dark and shutting out all distraction. Don’t count or worry about anything except technique and how it feels. Keep the force on the light side as you figure out your coordination as it relates to the feeling you are having inside your penis. This is your proper form. As you work into a routine, try to always achieve this proper form. Always do what feels right. If you feel uncomfortable or it hurts, then stop and do it again the next day. After a few weeks the soreness will stop. It’s been 6 months for me and I still do my routine with my eyes closed and find it very meditative and relaxing. Try to think positive thoughts throughout your routine. Perhaps tell yourself that you are beautiful and nothing will prevent you from living your best life. I believe it’s better to commit to the idea that you are doing this less for size and more for being a better lover. The size will come, but you will find erection quality and stamina, along with listening to your partner are more important than size to your lover. As you get in touch with yourself and find self love for your body, that confidence is a bigger turn on than an impressive penis. Best of luck.


Aww, thank you so much for this very wonderful and sweet post! :) I’ve been very grateful with how kind and understanding everyone has been with me here and I appreciate all of the advice and support so much more than I feel like I can describe with words alone. What you’ve said has helped to reassure me and give me hope that I really can fix this and have my best possible life. Thank you again so much, I’ll be sure to take this to heart and keep it in mind in my next routine.

Hi Velvet. Thanks for the kind words.

I remembered another thread that might help out, since you mentioned you had a little trouble with stretching. It is good because it shows different grips you can use.

Tricks And Tips For Manual Stretching

Hang in there with the life stress, that can be tough. 2017 was rough for me with life stuff, all better now.

Best of luck moving through all that, I know a brighter day is coming.

By the way we do have a sub forum here called Life, Love and Fantasies if you ever feel like talking about it. Lots of smart emphathetic supported people here.


Last edited by sta-kool : 07-29-2018 at .

Hi Velvet how have you been doing, hope all is well your friend Mario

Originally Posted by Thickmario

Hi Velvet how have you been doing, hope all is well your friend Mario

Thanks for thinking about me. I haven’t gotten around to doing much more exercises, and life has been tough. I’ve actually been a bit disturbed because it seems like my size is continuing to go down even without the hormones in my system anymore. It’s causing me a great deal of depression and I don’t think I can live with my body like this. I feel so unattractive and hopeless because of it. I almost feel like I don’t really have the words to describe how much this is destroying me as a person.

Originally Posted by Velvet

Thanks for thinking about me. I haven’t gotten around to doing much more exercises, and life has been tough. I’ve actually been a bit disturbed because it seems like my size is continuing to go down even without the hormones in my system anymore. It’s causing me a great deal of depression and I don’t think I can live with my body like this. I feel so unattractive and hopeless because of it. I almost feel like I don’t really have the words to describe how much this is destroying me as a person.

Antidepressants are a marvelous thing. You should see a psychiatrist.


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Originally Posted by Velvet
Thanks for thinking about me. I haven’t gotten around to doing much more exercises, and life has been tough. I’ve actually been a bit disturbed because it seems like my size is continuing to go down even without the hormones in my system anymore. It’s causing me a great deal of depression and I don’t think I can live with my body like this. I feel so unattractive and hopeless because of it. I almost feel like I don’t really have the words to describe how much this is destroying me as a person.

You have every right to desire and work to fulfill what is an ideal form for yourself, but your worth and value are in this unique opportunity you have to participate in life for what is just a flicker in the endless ocean of time.

The first and foremost greatest component of beauty, is that something is first different and unique.

Know when your perspective is negative and exercise your given freewill to shift it to something that will get you right in the moment.

Best wishes Velvet.


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Last edited by LittleEngine : 08-27-2018 at .

Originally Posted by Velvet
Thanks for thinking about me. I haven’t gotten around to doing much more exercises, and life has been tough. I’ve actually been a bit disturbed because it seems like my size is continuing to go down even without the hormones in my system anymore. It’s causing me a great deal of depression and I don’t think I can live with my body like this. I feel so unattractive and hopeless because of it. I almost feel like I don’t really have the words to describe how much this is destroying me as a person.

You know, it’s like I know exactly how you feel, even though I have no experience with trans people. But the part about feeling unattractive and hopeless hit home. Hope you can find peace.

If you really think your only problem is your dick, try a pump. Look in the pumping section for help.

Sorry for not posting again recently.

Originally Posted by c3ifador
Antidepressants are a marvelous thing. You should see a psychiatrist.


Yeah, I’m trying to get insurance again so I can actually go to the doctor.

Originally Posted by LittleEngine
You have every right to desire and work to fulfill what is an ideal form for yourself, but your worth and value are in this unique opportunity you have to participate in life for what is just a flicker in the endless ocean of time.

The first and foremost greatest component of beauty, is that something is first different and unique.

Know when your perspective is negative and exercise your given freewill to shift it to something that will get you right in the moment.

Best wishes Velvet.


Thank you. What you’ve said was very sweet and beautiful. Hopefully I can achieve that kind of perspective but it’s very difficult. I get so consumed with feeling like I’m not as good as someone or that I’m less than them if they’re bigger than me, that I could never please someone as well as they could. It’s made want to avoid sex entirely if I can’t fix this. I hope saying this kind of stuff isn’t inappropriate here. It’s just my messed up thoughts though and I feel bad for even having them even though it’s directed at myself. It makes me really sad.

Originally Posted by Smallblkguy
You know, it’s like I know exactly how you feel, even though I have no experience with trans people. But the part about feeling unattractive and hopeless hit home. Hope you can find peace.

If you really think your only problem is your dick, try a pump. Look in the pumping section for help.


I’m really sorry you’ve had similar feelings. I wouldn’t wish these feelings on anyone. Thank you for hoping for me. I would be willing to try a pump if I had any money at all to spend. My life is pretty much in shambles at this point.

Hi sweetie,

If I were in your shoes, I would continue to take the hormones even if it is really causing you to lose size. You will become prettier looking more feminine, in my opinion. Later, after you stop taking your hormones, you can do PE and regain your penis size again, I guess. Anyway, it’s a difficult call. I hope you the best. Bye

Kind of agree with this guy.

Once you decided to take the hormones you definetely took a road that has only one direction Velvet. I know it might sounds harsh but you should definetly focus more on your feminine side right now even though I wish for you to regain what you lost one way or another.

Sadly it’s most likely not gonna happen, especially if you keep going with the hormones. If you took them for a decent amount of time going reverse would be the same as trying to turn back time.

Never give up aniway, wish you the best and remember that anything is possible but not everything is possible so choose wisely.


Last edited by Accro : 09-06-2018 at .

Continuing hormones and transitioning isn’t even an option for me right now either. I have no money and no insurance. If you want the truth I’m not very attractive or feminine even when I had the hormones. They didn’t do a lot for me. My only hope of being even decent would be if I could invest absurd amounts of money into cosmetic operations and surgeries. It’s sad to think that through trying to feel more comfortable in my own body, I only moved further away from it and in a way ruined my life. I have no hope at this point and it’s possible I’d be better off not even bothering with life anymore. Thanks you still for wishing me the best. I appreciate all of the help and advice you’ve all given me.

Chin up mate. You’re going through a really intense and difficult transition. I’ve got a mate who also really struggled with a similar phase to what you sound to be in and she is thriving now.

I know my mate has a good online trans community to help her through. Hopefully you also have this kind of support. I think it’s definitly one of those things you can’t really identify with unless you’re going through it yourself.


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Jan 2016 _ 8" BPEL _ 5 6/16" MEG | Mar 2016 _ 8 1/4" BPEL _ 5 7/16" MEG

Oct 2017 _ 8" BPEL _ 5 1/4" MEG

Stay strong Velvet. Try to map out a plan to get where you want to be. Know that sometimes at various points in our path forward we might have to take a few steps back.

Stay strong!

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I don’t know if the loss of length mechanisms are the same in your case or not being due to the hormone replacement. But in the case of peyroines, restoration of lost length with the use of an extender has a lot of clinical support and there are devices on Ebay available for a very low cost.

In addition in the case of the onset of ED as a result of radical prostatectomy, there is a VED device protocol that has been found to be effective. If you do a search here there have been links for Vacuum devices with a guage sold on Ebay for a low price as well.

I don’t mean to minimize your despair because I’m sure it’s complex, but you do have things available to you that could help you, regarding this specific issue.

Absolutely Velvet. This is Thunders Place a home for one, a home for all. Our friends have shared some meaningful insight and that should be great to bring you forward and advance your pursuits. I am certain others will also learn through you experiences for whatever our motivation may be we are here for the health and wealth of that which rests between us legs, our soul, our minds and more significantly that which is shared between us all.

To this day the newbie routine has been one of the most effective things I have ever engaged in. It works and from time to time when I am away from normal pumping it is the newbie routine that has blessed me with healthy and size.


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