Totally reamed by what girlfriend said
My (now ex) girlfriend and I were on really bad terms, so that may be one reason she said the following. However, I think she meant it in a physical sense too for the most part. Are you ready? This is a whopper!
Disappointed in your desire to fuck when your cock is nonexistent; your perpetual desire for fornication when you have no tool to create said desire.
Your cock is actually the smallest penis I’ve seen in my life
Hence the reason why I joined this forum today. Lol
My penis is really small when flaccid. Maybe 2” long and 1” in diameter. That brings a lot of embarrassment to me in general. I avoid public showers at all costs, and I hold off on sex with any girl I date because I’m too worried about what will happen the first time she sees my dick.
HOWEVER, I’m a grower. My dick gets to 5” length and 1.3” diameter when hard. It’s a HUGE difference (is this typical?). So I’m glad about that! I’m 43 yrs old, and my dick actually used to be bigger. Getting older sucks. To top it off, my erections are really soft these days and I often have a hard time getting it up at all (partly due to the nervousness I feel in terms of being inadequate). By the way my (ex) girlfriend also said, “I’m not fucking you again because I prefer men who can get hard and are good at fucking, and you aren’t good at either”. What a BITCH she was, for several reasons.. Also, I’ve had girls tell me, “how did you get so good at that” after we’ve fucked. You can take this two ways — A) you have a small dick but you use it very well, and B) you have a nice sized dick and you use it very well. I’m a very sensual person, good looking, give great oral, and I honestly think I’m one of the best fucks out there for my dick size. Lol. However, due to my size, I often have a hard time cumming unless the girl’s pussy is really tight because there’s not enough friction (that sucks for the girl too, but there are sex positions you can use to help with that).
I’ve been jelquing for a couple weeks now and I definite notice my dick is a little fuller and a little more stiff when hard. I can feel it in my grip. I haven’t measured it but it’s maybe an eighth of an inch thicker, but mainly it feels “fuller”. I’m optimistic.
I really don’t care if I don’t gain length (although I think I could gain an inch or more after reading some of these posts). My main concern is girth. Boy it would be great to get to 1.5” in diameter, but to be honest my goal is 6”. I’m definitely below average girth wise, but no where near what my bitch ex-girlfriend said.
Can anyone give me hope and a timeframe for getting from 1.3” diameter to 1.5” diameter? Will it be possible to get to 2” diameter, and how long (assuming I’m diligent about it)?
Also, I worry that jelquing will soften my erections, can this happen? If I use a cock ring I can get my dick pretty hard, and it stays hard (I also have problems losing my erection during sex). So I hope the cock ring route will always be a solution.
Finally, I just bought a penis pump. I used one in the past and I remember my dick grew huge. It went up to nearly 7” and definitely gained girth but not as much as I wanted. I have potential. Lol. I think a pump in combination with a cock ring will be a great way to start off sex. What I’m wondering is, what’s the best way to use a pump to gain permanent girth? Is it safe to jelq after pumping, and if so what’s the correct way to do it?