miami, your other thread reminded me of this post — I just was able to track it down and thought it went well here too…dunno, something to think about:
Just because a lot of guys around here think that size maybe ideal doesn’t necessarily mean it is. Most of the guys that think it is are no where being near that size. Ask the 8x6er’s about blow jobs. I bet they feel teeth. Ask if they get a lot of anal. Hell no. So how ideal is 8x6? They may have great vaginal sex, but ideal to me is to the sex best sex in all the orifices.
My goal was 7.5 BPEL X 5.5 EG which I thought, and still do, is ideal. Guess what, I over shot my goal. I am 8.125 BPEL X 5.8 EG. My girth was too much for my wife to handle. From having sex almost every night to almost no sex at all. The quality of blow jobs went down, I started to feel teeth, a lot. A sharp tooth will turn an erection to a turtle, and I loved the blow jobs before the girth. I can’t stick all of my dick in my wife cause the base of my dick is well over 6 inches. I used to love touching pelvic to pelvic. Be careful what you wish for. My wife and I were PEing together (her helping me) to customize my dick, only to be told that I wasn’t PEing for the both of us, but for my ego. We went from having a lot of sex fun to a lot of arguments about sex, because it was to fat for her or, hey watch the teeth. I haven’t PE’d in over 7 months hoping I would loose some girth gains. Guess what, my girth gains cemented, I was hoping to go down to 5.5 EG.
Justlearning pick a realistic goal and go from there and see and feel what is good and ideal for you in what you feel with women and how women feel with you. Ideal and satisfaction as far as feeling goes work hand and hand. Bigger is not necessarily better.