I’m a 22 year old virgin with a 4” BPEL on the brink of suicide. Before I end it all, I’m trying to explore some alternatives like PE. If this does not work, my next stop will be chemical castration and after that, ending it.
I’m willing to go through any surgical/non-surgical process. Today I started doing the newbie routine. I tried to find the progress log of someone of my size, but couldn’t. Does anyone know the chances of me hitting 5” or 5.5”?
Welcome, Sadly penis size matters more to us males than it does to females. Most women i have come across are more concern with who you are as a person, I guess the same as you wouldn’t totally disregard a relationship with a girl if her breast were on the small size.
Besides that you now have all the information at hand to change your size like hundreds and thousand before you. There is something powerful in the knowledge that you can change your situation so use it and move forward with confidence.
And yes there is no reason why you couldn’t make it to 5.5. And beyond.
Nov 2009- 5.5 bpel - 4.3 mseg ------ Jan 20012- 6.75 bpel - 4.7 mseg
Short term goal 7 x 5
Goal 7.5 x 5.5
If you are patient and follow a consistent routine over a number of months, there is no reason you can not make some reasonable gains. If you are not willing to put in the effort, try measurection.com, a support group forum for guys with average and below average dicks. They can help you accept and live happily with what you have.
Start 11/09 BPEL: 5.5", EG: 4.4"
Current. BPEL: 6:4", EG: 5.5"
Success with PE takes time, effort, discipline and the dedication to not give up.
Honestly, the way you decided to describe your situation makes you look like the giving up type, but for your sake, I hope not.
Your goal is very reasonable so welcome, and good luck. :)
Are you really on the brink of suicide? I hope the size of your penis isn’t the only reason why. If you are on antidepressants bear in mind that they affect your libido and your erection quality. In my opinion this might limit potential for growth. Also antidepressants have a tendency to make some people more depressed or sociopaths and psycopaths. They put you in a state of total indifference and you feel that way about everything including your life. If you are on ssris talk to your doctor about coming of off them slowly to bring yourself back to a nice healthy level. Also look into your sleep and find out if you are having any problems by getting a sleep study. Sleep problems often cause symptons that resemble depression or ADHD depending on the person. Then you tell your physician and or mental health doctor about this and they treat the symptons with out really trying to find a root underlying cause.
Well man best of luck and please don’t kill yourself. I’ve had a suicide with a person that was near and dear not family but nonetheless close enough and let me tell you that suicide is the pussies way of going out. This person left a huge whole in bunch of peoples lives and big emotional problems that have been really hard to overcome by the people that were around. You will cause a lot more harm than good to those around you if you kill yourself believe me.
I think if you apply yourself you can get to 5” pretty easily, and possibly 6” over time. I wouldn’t worry about size. I am pretty comfy at 7” NBP and 5.5” around. But I will tell you straight out, that I never could make my last girlfriend come with it. But with just my index finger, I could make her cum almost every time. And so I did, either before, or after we had sex. A bigger penis is hardly the end all be all of being a great lover.
What is your girth dude?
Originally Posted by yoshinator
Are you really on the brink of suicide? I hope the size of your penis isn’t the only reason why.
It’s the root of my problems. Due to my insecurities I never tried to get laid and one time I even turned a girl down in high school. Eventually I gave up on my sexual and social life. I felt horrible and my psychiatrist prescribed me SSRIs which lowered my libido, made me a little happier and overall helped me go through college alive. For the last 4 years in college I have almost always stayed in my room. Now that I’m close to graduating, I realized that my life is going nowhere.
Originally Posted by yoshinator
If you are on antidepressants bear in mind that they affect your libido and your erection quality. In my opinion this might limit potential for growth. Also antidepressants have a tendency to make some people more depressed or sociopaths and psycopaths. They put you in a state of total indifference and you feel that way about everything including your life. If you are on ssris talk to your doctor about coming of off them slowly to bring yourself back to a nice healthy level. Also look into your sleep and find out if you are having any problems by getting a sleep study. Sleep problems often cause symptons that resemble depression or ADHD depending on the person. Then you tell your physician and or mental health doctor about this and they treat the symptons with out really trying to find a root underlying cause.
My hand doesn’t seem to care about my erection quality, but I’ll talk to my psychiatrist and slowly get off the antidepressant anyway. I have problems with breathing through my nose (needs surgery) which affects my sleep. A sleep study sounds like a great idea. I’ll try to get these fixed pretty soon.
But as long as I don’t fix the main problem, I’ll always feel inferior, inadequate.
Thank you for your input, it is much appreciated.
If you have sleeping problems it could be causing a problem with the release of hormones while you sleep. For instance HGH is one of the hormones that is almost exclusively produced while you sleep the other time its released is during high intensity exercise. Maybe you’re body hasn’t had the release it needs of HGH due to sleeping problems. Most health problems can be solved with 3 things. Nutrition, exercise and sleep. Even things like depression, aches and pains, bad skin, you’d be surprised. I’m sure if you also take the time to follow a consistent PE routine you can achieve some of your goals of increasing your penis. The only thing is that PE is not magic and you wont get results over night you might not even get result after 2 or 3 months but you have to stick to it. I wish there was a magic pill that could give us everything we wanted in our lifes. I guarantee you if everyone had one penis size would not be one of the priorities.
Well my friend I really wish you well. Trust in yourself and be secure in yourself and everything else will fall in place. Really consider the sleep study it can be life changing for some. You can fix the other two of things I mentioned earlier, nutrition and exercise, but with out the third, sleep, you might as well be pissing into the wind.
Stick with PE rather than surgery. A broken penis is much more depressing. If you have any pudge on your belly work on loosing it; you can get some free gains that way. With an open ended time table an inch gained in length is vey realistic for 99% of guys.
Absolutely do the PE; it really does work. But also read around the forums in general. Plenty of guys show up for the bigger trout but get much more from this place. The Depression Workshop
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Give it 5 months and you will start seeing a difference. How big is your girth. Length doesn’t matter at all if you have girth?
You are why we talk.
Five years for 1.75 inches. So what, don’t cry about it, I gotta work hard. Tough, isn’t it, but by thirty you can have a big dick. That’s mind boggling, but look I started at 31 basically, so I really don’t feel sorry for you. At thirty your toil will be irrelevent, you’ll just be a guy with a big dick and years to gain.
I get mad at my shrinkage when it’s freezing and I take off my extender and my nuts tighten up and my cock retracts and at a straight view there is some foreshortening, but other than those exact conditions I feel plenty confident a lot, in fact three hot chicks between the ages of twenty to thirty are now close to potentially being fuckbuddies, which is so mind boggling…I never used to hang low ever, now I REALLY want to become a stripper and a porn star, no joke, shoot for the moon I say.
You gotta take whatever road is there, I mean I wasn’t four inches but my twenties were miserable, I masturbated a lot, even “edged” and “ballooned” without knowing it. All I know is I seemed to be bigger at thirty than twenty, and I hadn’t officially, consciously done things like stretching and jelqing. So I am saying with a conscious program, the sure knowlede you will grow, the fact that a man’s physical prime is long, lasts awhile and is determined by male dominance and cock size, and you should have a happier twenties than I had.
Start: 5.75 x 4.5 Current: 7 x 5.25
Such Spartan training is for the champ. -Bruce Lee