Thoughts and questions after first few sessions
I started PE two weeks ago, and am just about done with a week-long break. I was doing the newbie routine, but I began to have some negative PIs. For one thing, I found it very hard to keep up an erection while jelqing, often coming down to 30-40% by the end of it. For another, I no longer had morningwood, which was definitely unusual for me. Taking this into account, I decided to take a short break and start again on Monday (I.e. Tomorrow). In the meanwhile, I’m hoping to identify where I was going wrong and see if I can fix those mistakes over the next 5 days.
1.) I think the biggest issue is my grip; after searching through the forums a bit, I’m pretty sure that the reason I had trouble staying hard was that it was way too tight. Somehow, I was under the impression that you were really supposed to squeeze and drag the shaft while jelqing, but now it seems like that’s a very bad move. So obviously I should take it a little lighter from now on, but just how light? I know this can be kind of hard to describe, but just how hard or soft should the grip be?
2.) I’m also wondering if there’s some technique for jelqing that gets around the problem of pubic hair? With the alternating grips and lubricant, I’d almost inevitably end up pulling on hairs as I moved up the shaft.. Is there some way to avoid this (besides shaving it all off)? I was thinking maybe something like keeping one hand permanently at the base and letting the other do all the work.
3.) Kegels can be a bit of a problem, and I guss it’s like this for a lot of guys starting out. I’ve heard people mention here and there that they spread their kegeling out over the course of the days.is this right and how could I put it into practice to make my routine a little less cumbersome?
I did a lot of searching through the forums on these things, but I hope I can still get some direct answers.. I also hope the veterans don’t mind the “newbyness” of my questions here. Any help would be appreciated.. Cheers.