I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 18 (20 now). I’m asian and would never want to be anything else. A little taller perhaps, but that doesn’t bother me.
I’ve read an interesting article lately: http://www.howtobecooler.com/virgin
Like the article said, not the end of the world. Definitely work on yoru game. Confidence helped get me where I am. It’s been 1.5 years with my white (only mentioning since race seems to be an issue in this thread) girlfriend. My 5.25” BPEL x 4.3” has never been an issue. Definitely work on technique. Work on the romance and the foreplay.
Good luck and don’t obsess. I definitely agree with the article.