Things I NEVER dared to ask.
Hi there.. My names syd .. BEFORE YOU FREAK OUT BY THE LENGHT OF THE POST, PLEASE CONSIDER READING IT =)
I’m new in PE, and I’m definitely lost.. I have some questions to be answered, if you find it’s worth your time.. Ill really appreciate it.
Heres some of my background.: I had my 18th birthday days ago.. I had a HAPPY childhood, although I don’t remember much of it, I’m good at school, have good friends.. Moral is high.. Except for some “little” problems.. Much pressure, feeling of emptiness, and.. In spite of being a fit, good-looking lad, I have no sex-life, maybe because of me thinking I’m too small.. Or perhaps thats what I think might “unconsciously” hold me back whenever I get chance to get laid (they don’t occur often anyways) . Now I’m dating a very hot girl, my age.. Who had lots of sexual experiences.. And that makes me feel even worse.
Well, the background was for you to get to know me, and because I think psychological factors may influence this kind of problems.. But enough .. Lets get through it.
I’ve been doing this routine, since yesterday.. And BELIEVE IT OR NOT ; I think I already increased by 0.3 inches
-Warm up (with hair dryer, no gas till tomorrow)
-Flexing my penis (pulling it in all directions, flaccid state)
- Jelq (don’t really know the method.. I just squeeze it.. And lub is soap for the time)
- Warm up
- Kegels anytime
Well: I don’t seem to ejaculate a lot.. Plus I get aroused very often, I don’t think I’m a long lasting man in bed. The point is that.. I can’t stop getting erect while I do the exercises.. Any suggestion??
Length, fully erect: I was on 5.70 last time I measured, and now I’m 6. Something
Girth: only measured today for first time: 5.5 inches.
Here come the questions:
-HOW SMALL AM I? Will a woman look at me and laugh/ find it “not attractive” ? I just think that it isn’t proportional to my body.. It seems too small between my big legs :S (my height is: 1.seventy-something)
- When a man ejaculates.. Can he keep going? How come there be multiple orgasms, if when I ejaculate, I can’t go on, it hurts, I lose all sensibility and I’m not excited.
- I’m not comfortable buying a lubricant, cause of my family.. Any home-made will do? Olive oil perhaps?
What about enlargement pills? Can I buy them at pharmacies? Is there a home made recipy?
Are they good for me? Is this whole PE healthy? Because pills say they release more testosterone, increase blood flow.. I assume temperature of body to, and sex desire.. The last two I definitely don’t need.. Most of my health problems are due too excessive blood temperature, and believe me testosterone is high, I’m the most hairy of my mates, and sex desire is pretty high, I’m erect half the day, and fully.. I don’t know how some guys even have sex with partial erections.. Plus I find it almost impossible to do jelqing like that.. I can’t reduce it to more than about 85-90% erect.. IS THAT A PROBLEM?
- I have a violet bruise already, and some red spots.. Is that cause I’m doing it OK ?
Well, I definitely have more questions, but I think you’ll get kind of lost.. Ill post some more in the future, under the title “Syd”.. If someone experienced offers to be my “PE MENTOR” ill be honoured.. And ill find that very helpful, because I find this issue more stressing than what it looks. Any better routine recommendation will be just fine.. And some explanations of how to perform the exercises without hurting myself, and getting 100% benefits, cause I’m in a hurry.. If I don’t make a move with this girl in the next month she’ll think I’M GAY!
Have fun, hope to talk to you soon, wish you best of lucks