There is hope for everyone

So this is my third month looking into this forum and I’ve been practicing the newbie routine. It actually does work! :] Kinda sucks though, cause I have to take it easy when it come to the “dirty deed” with my girlfriend. But I wanted to know should I continue the newbie routine or start a different cycle?

Welcome to the posting side of the forum SD, good to have you.

You will, in very little time, notice that this place is filled with wisdom on the ancient art of playing with ones dick, so taking the time to look threw it in depth will most likely produce a answer to your question.

The general mood on the forum regarding intensity is as follows: If it isn’t broken, don’t fix it.

You will also notice that the more information you post, the better the answer we will produce. With that said here are some questions:

Are you gaining?

Do you feel your penis can take more?

How are your physical indicators?

If you are still gaining you need not change a thing. If your penis is conditioned enough you can start slowly building up your routine by adding additional sets, and/or exercises. If your physical indicators are positive, then follow them until they start showing signs of negativity.

PE is subjective, for some it is easy to gain, for others hard, some move on faster, others slower. It’s a game of dedication and self awareness. No one here can tell you what is right for you, but we can give a more educated estimate if you include more information in your posts.

For you to better understand why it is advised to speak up on subjects I shall tell you that I have no idea why you need to take it easy when it comes to the so called “dirty” deed. I can’t figure out if your gains are to blame, or that it’s anal sex and you aren’t using enough lube. ;)

Welcome again, and take my advice, speak up.

Thank you very much Cat.

I do agree with you that it is very subjective and that everyone is in FACT different. I’ve read post where people want to quit or don’t see any improvements. It’s all because of time and effort. And we can’t hide the fact that there is a factor that genetics could or could not hold them back from improving.

To answer the dirty deed remark. My girlfriend pretty much said “you can’t get too hard” and that some positions give pain. And she didn’t have a problem before I did the newbie routine.

As a wise man once said on this site:
“A certain amount of pain is expected when dealing with women” (Props to the Happy Mr.)

This should not worry you too much, she will most probably get use to it.

I had a similar thing with my ex, yet somehow along the way that pain became cause for moist genitals. What you need to focus on is why you are doing this.

Best of luck to you.