The wife found my p.e equipment

Deny Everything.

This thread sure is amusing.

Just know this, I hope your wife is understanding and/or willing to work with you to build+keep your relationship. You are married so I hope that’s how it will go.

If you have a girlfriend and not knowing how she would react, it’s likely to be bad in my opinion either if she finds your PE equipment or you tell her about PE.

My wife found mine also and she thought I was a fool or a fag. So much for the opinion of a woman who spend better than 25% of their lives trying to look better and become more sexy. Promise her that you will forget the nonsense with these devices and continue doing your exercises but be much more careful where you hide the incriminating evidence. You are doing most of this for building your own self esteem and not must to satisfy her need for a longer lick in her vagina so lie but cover up more carefully.

So griongrower, what ever happened with this? My wife found my rice sock too, told her it was for sore muscles. The next day her daughter was wearing it around her neck.

:o

That reminds me of the girl who thought her boyfriends x-box game was a really long boring war movie.

Don’t trust women with this stuff, its not that they mean to hurt you, its just that they occasionally do.

And they aren’t sorry.

I would imagine this is a great time to talk to her about it. She knows, and is waiting for you to bring it up. I told mine before I ever started.

Made my morning!

Paradoxically, much of the worry expressed about having your wife know about an insecurity sounds a bit insecure. I am able to share insecurities with my wife because I can do so with great confidence; and I know how to communicate — having the right bait for the fish, to use the metaphor offered up-thread, because I know her and listen to her carefully.

It’s important that sensitive topics are framed carefully. And that seems to me to be the trick, if you don’t have the right frame, then use stealth. If you do, then good things can open up in your relationship as the product of the openness and honesty. Most of the women I’ve known like to be invited **a little way** into our private worlds, but its up to you to make it palatable and to determine how much you trust having her there.

Wise words TPP, good things have opened up in our relationship through better communication and me realizing that I don’t need to hide the way I feel or be ashamed and insecure because I want to improve myself and my dick size. If for some reason she ever decides to ridicule or tell other people about me and my kinky little habits then that’s her shit and it will not affect me.

She defiantly likes being apart of my private little P.E world, and makes me laugh when she ask if I’ve done my thunder clamping today.

I agree with that statement whole heartedly, they don’t care if they are hurting men, at all, at least the ones I’ve known.

Griongrower, that’s awesome that you can be open about it now.

Below is a thread when she caught me with an extender:
Wife caught me with extender