The wife found my p.e equipment

I’ve never said anything either to my current girlfriend or the girl I was with when I started PE years ago. Preferred both of them to think it was entirely God-given. :) I’m planning to live with my girlfriend next year but that’s not a problem since I’m pretty much as big as I want to be and will probably just jelq very occasionally for maintenance. I can see how having a heavy PE routine, especially one that involves lots of equipment, could be hard to hide from a wife or a girlfriend you live with. Probably best to come clean about it in that situation, I would say.

I’m with TheGr8Leviathan. Call me cynical but I don’t believe ANY woman is 100% honest so we should be able to have a secret or two as well.

Wise Words !

Personally, I agree with A-Unit. Relationships change and divulging your PE efforts can be used against you in some pretty unsavory ways.

My hat is off to those that are able to share with their significant others … that is the sort of relationship that we can all aspire to.

That said … It sounds very likely that your wife saw your PE Kit … and unless she is pretty stupid, she knows that you are using it for something. I would say with some level of confidence that the story that she comes up with to fill in the blanks will be a reflection of her personal anxiety and not ne anything close to reality.

My suggestion is that you approach your wife and say something like … “Thanks for cleaning up the office, it looks great and the good news is that I have finally figured out where everything is … ” or something like that. Basically give her the opening to ask whatever questions she has in her mind. If she doesn’t take the bait, then maybe you got lucky and she just moved the bag without looking in it (although I seriously doubt that that is the case). In any case, I would find a way to let her ask whatever questions that she has. The longer these unanswered questions nag at her, the more likely it is that she has gone to one of her girlfriends and asked them for there assessment of the situation … and they will analyze it from every angle … and no one wants that

Sleeping dogs.

Trigger nailed it. I have a couple examples of this.

You can read back to a post of one of my horror stories when I told my ex girlfriend about my PE (Extender, clamping). We had a horrible break up only a couple weeks later where she left me and drove over to my “best friends” house and the two of them hooked up that night. I posted the mp3 of the phone call she made the next day where she told me how much bigger his dick is than mine “without having to use stretching devices”. So, that reveal to her certainly bit me in the ass as I imagine she told that story to a few people I know.

The girl I was with next was not quite the same terrible experience, but after I told her and showed her what I downplayed as “casual exercising” she one day during a discussion with me told me how she “knew” I had a big mental problem with my penis size. Now, like many on here, we know we are not “small” but just striving to be closer to the “King of the Hill” and I don’t think I have ever felt embarrassed by my size (my erection quality.. Yes, but not the size), so I realized that when telling a girl what you do, it may also get read as major insecurities even if it is not. That in itself can emasculate you somewhat and leave an indelible impression.

Just keep in mind, no matter what happens in the relationship, your PE experience outside of our “AA of Penis” here, may find its way to others in your sphere of family and friends if you tell.

I told my wife that I am doing exercises to keep my dick healthy but that it might also get bigger. She is more than happy with what I have now but I am like all guys and don’t believe that she wouldn’t want more as she has had bigger in the past. One thing I do believe her on is that we have the best sex of her, and my, life. I can honestly say that with other women it has been great but the connection I have with her makes it the best. I know that usually what women say but I can attest to it as well.

I recently bought a pump and while I told her that I bought something, I havent told her what it is or showed it to her. I think the next time we are home together I will but maybe not if she doesn’t ask about it. I think it would be fun to have her help me out with my pe but I know that she doesn’t like toys. It is a fine line we walk on this issue and while I trust her 100% I still hold back on this issue a little.

Unless you are married or pretty damn sure this is it, which you can never be, don’t tell about it.

I did, I regret it.

Squidlips, you nailed it bro…

Hi all, just an update on the subject, there has been nothing said so sleeping dogs have been lying until the other night while I was at work she looked up my iPad for the local take out number, forgetful me left the thunders page open. I came home and while having dinner she arsks me if I have been doing any clamping today, well I almost chocked on my fried rice. I quickly asked her what is she talking about, then she tells me how she was reading up about p.e on the iPad. I fess up and tell her all about thunders and penis health etc, she smiles at me then gives me a look like you crazy fucker and changes the subject.

Last night we were in the hot tub and she catches me doing a bit of BTC stretching and says, you doing your P.E. I say yes and that I’ve put on an inch since I started, she then gives me a cute little chuckle and smile and says yer I know. So not only is my little hobby out in the open the wife has recognized my size increase, happy days. Iam hoping she will give me a hand with my jelq sessions

Haha, I’m sure she’s had a good see through the thread.

*waves* “hello griongrowers wife, be proud your husband cares enough to change for you”

:p

I’ve told my girl about some of my PE habits.
She doesn’t like it when I wear my extender.
Also, she doesn’t believe it’s possible to enlarge your penis.

I can’t wait for the day I can PE without having to stealth PE.
I live in an apartment complex that is basically a dorm-room (or dorm house), & in my house PEing isn’t very easy.

^^ Hilarious scene. :)

It doesn’t matter who else believes I can make my dick grow, and I wouldn’t think for a second to get into such a ridiculous conversation about such a thing, especially with a woman, because you’ve just signalled your insecurities about your manhood which goes in a little file in her brain called “for future reference”, and god help you if she ever decided, in the future, to refer to it.

Remember, you have to plan to be disappointed.

Yea guys.. Unless you have an ideal relationship (which would be a small percentage of all relationships) I don’t see any good coming from telling your significant other.

You only set yourself up for disappointment.

Personally, I told my wife. She pokes fun at me from time to time, but it’s all in good fun. She asks a lot of questions about it but that just tells me she is genuinely interested. It was kind of funny yesterday I was telling her that I should switch hanging angles to over the shoulder and she said, it’s not an elephant trunk how are you going to stretch it over your shoulder?