The Truth About Penis Size

Theres probably gonna be some people hating on this thread but it’s the truth.

You don’t need a huge penis to be “the man” you just need confidence. Am I telling you to stop PEing? No. Thinking that if you have a big penis you will be better at sex or you will get laid more because of it is wrong. This is how guys think, the bigger the penis the more women will want you. Like if you see some smokin hot chick with an ugly guy you might think that they guy must have a huge penis to get that girl. This way of thinking is understandable because the more physically attractive a woman is the more you want her and the better you think the sex will be. But of course, woman are way different. The guy has the confidence to talk to the woman and proabably has a good personality unlike the assholes that chick usually dates. The sexist thing to women is confidence. The reason many guys with big penis get laid more is that they are confident, probably because they have a big penis. Of course when you do PE your penis is getting bigger, but what that leads to is more confidence, which will make you more attractive to women. Do Brad Pitt and Colin Ferrell (dunno if thats how you spell his last name) have huge penises? I dunno I’ve never really seen them and I’m sure most women haven’t either. But women like them because they act like they’re the shit and they pretty much are.

Of course you may not be able to please every girl with a 3 or 4 inch penis, but I’m sure 5.5 or more is plenty if used right.

Anyways, women really want a man who takes control and is confident and at the same time caring, loving, and charming. My girlfriend has been with me and one other guy before me. My penis is 7” (non bone pressed) and 5.5” girth midshaft. The guy had what she estimates is 8.5”-9” long and a little thicker than me. He was an asshole to her and wasn’t very confident during sex probably because he wasn’t very good looking and wasn’t experienced.. He never got her to orgasm. The sex was most of the time painful and her thoughts would often stray during sex, she pretty much just did it for him. The first time we had sex I made her orgasm in about 3 minutes with only about a minute of fingering her beforehand. I was confident and took control and did my thing right.

Women want a man to care about her and be in control. Once in a while you gotta have really slow sex while whispering things in her ears to show her that you care and then sometimes you just gotta come home and rip her pants off and bone her brains out (and maybe even call her a slut) and watch some TV afterwards. Foreplay is really important too for good sex tease her by suddenly stopping in the middle and just putting the tip in and make her beg for the rest. Keep things interesting and always be in control and confident, just don’t turn into a cocky asshole. Remember: the biggest sex organ is the brain and confidence is to a girl as a hot chick with a tight, dripping wet, hot vagina is to guys.

Why am I doing PE? First I started to help me out a bit with my stamina and hardness but now my girl is pregnant so now I want some girth to make up for any possible vaginal looseness as a result. I love working out and looking good cause it gives me confidence and I like looking good for her cause she stays looking good for me, and this is just another work out for me.

So good luck PEing and hope you guys get the size you want and be confident and have some great sex. Just be a good guy and maybe take some time off PEing and work out a little bit (they like that and you will too). If you think 9 inches is your key to happiness, hope you hit it, but I think you’ll see that what will really make the girl orgasm quick is you being in the right state of mind.

Amen

Great Post! :thumbs:

(as many others shall also say)

I’d assume that the guy has a big wallet, not necessarily a big knob!

Seriously, I don’t think that a bigger dick will may a man better at sex. But I do think it will, or at least could, make the sex better. Bigger is better. It’s simple physics. Women do tend to prefer the “full” feeling.

However, I agree with you in that bigger is only better up to a point, and that point varies from woman to woman. Your 7” non-bone pressed by 5.5” girth is big. So I’m certain your girlfriend is very happy with that. Yes, 9” non-bone pressedby 6” (or whatever the other guy your girlfriend is talking about is) may be too big for her. Not many men are that big!

But in the main, I think you are right.

Yeah, you won’t find much hating coming your way. The stuff your expressed here is what many men here are constantly trying to remind themselves. Thanks for sharing! :up:

Yep. A big dick won’t make you a great lover, but it can make physically satisfying your partner a lot easier once you got everything else covered. Like it is often said here: It’s a bonus.

When thinking about people like Brad Pitt, though… At this point it has very little to do with the way he looks OR behaves. He could be a real mouse for a guy and still be the hottest shit ever walk on this planet. Why? Because he is Brad Pitt(tm). That guy has the whole damn world for his social proof. Everybody is saying how god damn hot he is, it doesn’t really matter anymore what you as an individual think. Hell, even I would probably give some to Brad.

You’re completely right…of course, a big dick doesn’t hurt (not after a couple minutes, anyway!)

Hey man, I started PE because my girl told me that the last dude she slept with had a bigger and thicker dick than mine. Even tho the situation was the same as yours, that it only hurt her and she never came to orgasm while I made her cum in 3 mins the first time we had sex(now it’s more like 45 secs), it devastated me that she had some pornstar monstercock in her at one point. How do you cope with the fact that she’s had a dude who was physically superior to you?

Oh yeah mine is about 6.5 NBPx5.3

Why do we always belive it, when our girlfriends say, that her last lover could not get her to orgasm and if he had a bigger dick, it only was painfull, and they only wanted it to be finnished. My wife has said the same, and I just do not believe it. I think that most girl will tell stories about this - not to offend their pressent lover, I know I would never tell my wife about the great sex I had with my ex.

The only think you CAN hope is that your girl - belive her own lie as well.

Sorry.

Have you ever thought that they may tell that to you for a reason to begin with? How about to test you? Or to keep you in check and not to inflate your ego?

theone11,

You’re 7” NBEL by 5.5” EG. So, that’s approxiately 8 BPEL by 5.5 EG—very near to the “ideal” most me strive for.

Not that I disagree with your conclusions, but your personal experience is hardly evidence that a smaller penis is adequate. You’re actually quite large.

I just can’t reach you man, a guy with a big dong already trying to soothe the little guys. Isn’t this like Bill Gates telling me it is O.K. to be a few months behind on the rent and wonder how long my 800.00 car will last?

I don’t know about your cases but I know my girlfriend didn’t lie to me about not orgasming. She told me she never had before she ever saw my penis or told me about her ex’s penis or ever did anything sexual. Before we had sex I would finger her and she would never orgasm and I would be bummed out and I asked her why and she just said that it felt good but she just couldn’t and just thought she was one of those girls that never did. A few weeks later I finally got her to orgasm but it took like an hour of fingering her and my hand was sore and swollen but when it happened I could really tell that it was something new to her cause she was shocked and she even said “I can’t believe you could do that with you fingers and sean couldn’t do that with his penis, he really sucked.” Every time after that it took less and less time cause she got comfortable orgasming. He didn’t know how to use his penis right and he hurt her and he wasn’t confident at all (He would be asking questions during the whole time) which made her uncomfortable during sex but of course the sex was probably good once in a while when she was in the mood, but nothing compared to me. If you make the girl feel comfortable (as in self-image and mentally) and especially if she loves you like she has never loved any other guy, the sex will be better than the guys before. My girl is like a 9 on a scale of 10, but she has a bad self-image so making a girl feel comfortable naked is the first thing you gotta do to have good sex, make sure the sex is good for both of you and she’s not just doing it to make you happy.

I coped with the fact that her ex was physically superior to me by just believing her and I asked two of her best friends without her being around. When she told me for the first time, I didn’t wanna have sex with her. All I thought about was this huge penis in her and her loving it cause of course the guy mentallity “bigger is better.” I couldn’t believe her when she told me it wasn’t good. It took a few months to get over that, believe me, it was rough. But if you love her and she loves you, you should trust what she says. Her friends told me she hated it and barely ever did it so I believed them too. Seeing how much she enjoys sex with me, how she orgasms more and more every time, she begs for sex sometimes and even cries when we can’t, and we used to have sex 2 or 3 times a day like 4 or 5 times a week before she got pregnant, I can tell she REALLY loves sex with me.

About me having a big penis and trying to tell guys with small ones it’s okay, I’m mostly speaking from polls women take and one of my best friends. Girls just like a penis big enough to satisfy them according to them. One of my friends has a 5.5” penis and girls love having sex with him cause he came to terms with his penis size and is a really confident guy and knows what he’s doing during sex.

Did I leave any questions out?

Thank you Dr. Phil; although your comments are right on, your grammar is horrific. It is a good thing you have a large phallus so that more time can be spent on your language arts.

Who is Dr. Phil. Who are you referring to?