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The problem about being average

The problem about being average

Every time I feel I’m not big enough I try to think about the fact that my size is just about the average size

Which it probably is : 6” NBPEL 4.5 EG.

But let me tell you something I’m quite sure about : being average means that almost all the other guys in the world are either bigger or smaller then me, and I imagine that many many of those that are smaller then me are to shy to have sex, or at least they have allot less then others.

What that means is that to a girl the average size will appear to be bigger then it actually is ,and I that have the actual average size will appear to be relatively small.

Is sucks anyway.

Well let’s just hope PE works for me too, and ill be able to feel better about that part of me soon.

I hope I managed to phrased myself good enough for you to understand and thanks in advance for listening and replying.

You and I have the exact same size. And I know what you mean.

To be honest though, I don’t think people with smaller dicks than us are going to shy away from sex. That would depend more on personality rather than penis size.


Starting size: (April 1 2007) 5.95" BPEL x 4.65" EG. | Progress Thread (plus pics)

Now: (August 20 2007) 6.6" BPEL x 4.81" EG. Half way towards my goal! | Current Stats

Short term goal: (3-4 months) 6.8" BPEL, 5.0" EG.. Long term goal (1+ yr): 7.5" BPEL, 5.5" EG.

Being your size is nothing to be ashamed of. LOTS of men are a lot smaller and they have lots of sex. I think your problem is thinking “I am too small”. Just have a lot of confidence and women will love you for it. Stop being negative and be happy you have a much bigger penis than most men. And all those “BIG” and “HUNG” guys make up an extremely small percentage of the worlds population. Be confident and women will hurl themselves at you ;)

Hey nick.

Maybe your right(hopefully), I know I would be shy if I was smaller, but I generally have problems with insecurities.

Okish hits it right on the head. Haha :)
Besides bentsi, you don’t get women to bed by showing them your cock :) From women perspective, any cock should be better than masturbation. And if you’e feeling your dick is not enaugh, you can always use other tools in your arsenal (tongue, fingers) .

A big dick isn’t a must to make a woman have a great time :)
Be confident, feel like elephant hung, the rest should come :D
Good Luck.


Start: 6.9 BPEL x 4.9 (17,5 x 12,5 cm)

Now: 7.7 BPEL x 5.7 (19,5 x 14,5 cm)

Originally Posted by Okish6er

Being your size is nothing to be ashamed of. LOTS of men are a lot smaller and they have lots of sex. I think your problem is thinking “I am too small”. Just have a lot of confidence and women will love you for it. Stop being negative and be happy you have a much bigger penis than most men. And all those “BIG” and “HUNG” guys make up an extremely small percentage of the worlds population. Be confident and women will hurl themselves at you ;)

I guess you are right.

I think it all started about 3 years ago when I teased my ex about having small breast, she in return told me : “do you think I wouldn’t prefer if your dick was bigger?”.

I acted like I don’t care but you know those things can go deep.

Bitch!

Yes, for many girls the average is essentially about what they have seen and experienced first hand. That could very well mean that to girl X, the average is 7” + and to girl Y the average is be 5-6” much like all the studies and data claim.

We all worry about the girls we are with that have had many partners. I worry about this too and naturally assume more partners means more exposure to big dicks. This is true, however, more partners could also mean more exposure to small and average size dicks so in a way being with a girl that has slept with 15-20 guys for instance might be a good thing when it comes to how we meausure up.

Kaan, that’s quite a dick you got there ha ha.

I just need a little extra to be very confident, I just need to be a little above average.

By the way, can I see more pictures of the girl in your avatar?, she’s just my type :) .

What I try and keep in mind is the following quote from Thunder’s own Penis Size page:

If you erect length is over 6.21” and your erect girth is over 4.85”, you are larger than the majority of other men and you can walk down the street safe in the knowledge that the majority of men you meet will be smaller than you.

That to me means that most likely the majority of men that GIRLS will meet will be smaller than me if I am that size or larger. Whether they have sex with them or not does muddy the water some but I have got to believe that statistics essentially have a way of working themselves to a yield that is well exactly what the statistic reported in the first place.

You my friend are very close to the 6.21” X 4.85” benchmark so you in my opinion ought to feel pretty fortunate and with some PE may surpass that mark in time as I have.

It’s all a very vicious cycle trying to figure out, rationalize, and then accept how you measure up. What I can tell you in my experience is that your size is fine and not so small that it would be a deal breaker for just about if not every girl you meet and have sex with. Especially if you are a good lover and know what you are doing in the sack.

Originally Posted by bentsi
Kaan, that’s quite a dick you got there ha ha.
I just need a little extra to be very confident, I just need to be a little above average.
By the way, can I see more pictures of the girl in your avatar?, she’s just my type :) .

Her name is “Gianna” . Google it, and you’ll see lots of pages :)
Of course we want big, that’s why we’re here. But what I’m saying is that you shouldn’t see being big as a “must”. That would put pressure on you. But the whole idea here is to feel good. Hung. Alpha. That way :)

So you can do wonders with that dick too. But if you prefer to make it bigger, work on it, and have fun :)
Cheers.


Start: 6.9 BPEL x 4.9 (17,5 x 12,5 cm)

Now: 7.7 BPEL x 5.7 (19,5 x 14,5 cm)

Hey Baywatch, thanks for your response.

I promise that when my penis is 6.21 X 4.85 I won’t whine again :) , I just have to see some growth to feel allot better.

But don’t you think that the average penis size of men that have sex is larger then the average size of those that don’t?

I do not think that at all.

In fact, as I have posted here in the past, I know a guy who has a cock that is a bit less than say 6” NBP and this guy has slept with hundreds of women. The thing about it that is remarkable is that he sleeps with girls that are super hot and way better than average. I mean most are drop dead OMG pretty and I have seen some of what he gets and it is very impressive.

The other thing worth noting is that it seems that these girls like this guy a lot and seem to enjoy the sex with him too.

Further more, I think that the guys who don’t get laid on at least a semi regular basis have other limiting issues besides penis size. Things like the guy being flat out butt ugly for example or fat like beached whale. Things like that that are way more non starter than the size of his dick.

What does that mean to me? The guys that have limiting factors like I noted above are outliers and most everyone else falls into the mainstream middle or average. It means that these are the guys in the middle of the stats. Mr. Average if you will. And there is a very good chance your girl has slept with him and his brethren more than once and may in fact have only slept with his type because as the stats say there are more of him than Mr. above and below average.

It’s a numbers game and by and large in my opinion the numbers work the way the stats say they do. Therefore I don’t believe mainstream girls who have sex with guys only end up with Mr. above average like you think.

My 2 cents.

While I really don’t see my penis as being very big, by the goals and perceptions of what is ‘big’ on this site, I could be considered endowed.
While this may or may not be true, I’m useless with girls, it really is an overall confidence and personality thing rather than what you’ve got to use.

Average sucks. I want to be large. :)

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