The moment you believed PE was real
I was frustrated, depressed and felt inadequte.
I was frustrated that women could plunk down a couple grand and recieve larger breasts, while men either had to be content with what they had or risk surgery that could leave you with a larger dong, but could also (at the time) leave your unit lumpy, permanently soft, or with strange erection angles.
The disclaimers from the doctors about the risks of surgery were enough to keep me from considering it as an option, otherwise I would gladly have paid big money for a longer johnson. I was prepared to live my life with a penis I considered short.
Watching porn, I would constantly compare my weiner to the weiner of the male porn star. The guy would be lacing into the girl, and she would be going nuts! I’ve rarely had sex like that! It’s only recently that I’ve been told that good sex in the real world is nothing like porn; they’re actors acting. Of course, at the time, that’s all I really knew, so since I could thrust, I attributed large penis size to good sex and concluded that since I wasn’t large, I would never really enjoy good sex.
It was pretty depressing actually. I was (still am, sort of; but I know this will dissappear with PE) self conscious during sex due to the length of my penis. I just couldn’t enjoy it, because the fear of being inadequate kept my mind from focusing. The problem extended into meeting girls as well. Though I’m not a player, I’ve actually turned down sex when in BED with a female that’s ready to go, for fear of her talking to her friends.
And girls DO talk. Don’t kid yourselves into thinking that they don’t. EVERY SINGLE girl that I’ve been friends with (many ethnic backgrounds), even the most prudish ones, have told me some peice of sexual trivia about a) their past boyfriends/flings, or b) a person we both know. I once had a girlfriend comment directly after sex about a guy that she fucked that had a large whacker; this didn’t help me at all… To hear girls in a group is even worse; all the stops come out! They laugh like crazy or at least giggle about guys with short johnsons and collectivly get ‘hot’ when talking about a guy they all know that supposedly has a huge wang. During one of the sessions, one of the girls even burst out crying after breaking up with her boyfriend. She shreiked “he had a huge cock!” Is penis size that important?!?!?
Perhaps its only the girls that I know, but it’s happened more than once with different groups, so it’s gotta be true! :)
No matter which path I took, it would all come back to penis size. My feelings of inadequacy were only compounded with porn images and the discovery of free circulation of private information. I know I would eventually get on with my life, but I also knew that it would continually be a joy-kill every time I saw a smoking latina or korean girl walking down the street; look, but don’t touch. Is that anyway to live?
That’s when it happened. I began searching the net, from time to time, for penis enlargement information. I’m not sure why, exactly. Perhaps it was all of those “grow your penis” emails I had been bombarded with. I tripped on a couple of sites that confirmed that one could increase his size with very inexpensive hangers and pumps. They often included some low quality (sometimes obviously faked photos). I wanted to believe, but just couldn’t. I didn’t stop looking though.
Finally, I came across one or two sites and a pdf about PE. Unlike the rest, they weren’t pushing a product, rather they were offering FREE information. I was a huge skeptic. Shit, it was too good to be true. I could get a larger willy and it wouldn’t necessarily cost me a dime, only time? But I saved those pages, even if I was skeptical, it was hope.
The moment actually came later when I tripped on peforum.net. I started reading posts about a whole community of PE’ers. As I continually read, I quickly lost my skepticism. I was fimilar with message boards and couldn’t believe that hundreds of users would lie about the benefits of PE. I was a believer. I could get those inches that I wanted. It still is exciting just thinking about it!
I later tripped on thunders place, did more reading and finally signed up.
I know I wasn’t the only skeptic out there. I’m sure many in this board were also skeptical or still are.
Skeptical or not, I want to hear your story.