Terrible EQ Help

Alright so I’m 18, and erections when I was younger were never hard to get they were just hard to get 100%. I think I’ve gotten 100% hard less then 10 times in my life so far.

Well anyways. I just broke up with my batshit crazy ex girlfriend who I’ve shared a lot of fantastic sex with about 2 weeks ago, me and her got back together a couple days later to do strictly sexual things, but then I met this new girl, she’s funny, cute, kinky etc etc etc. But I don’t think anything will happen with her and I.

Well I broke it off with my ex again about 3 days ago and before that 3 days when we’re together again I was at 100% every time we talked or did anything together, it was crazy it’s never happened before in my life, my girth hit 5.3+ inches one night even after coming, so when I split it off again for a different girl and because I felt nothing for her then, my erections became very low quality. Honestly I would give them a 70% hardness now with getting horny, yesterday I looked at myself in the mirror and I was honestly kind of depressed. My EQ and girth dropped exponentially, and I’m very worried that 100% or even 90% won’t come again. Right now I’m measuring at 6.7 NBP and only 5 girth which is a lot different from my 7.1 NBP length and 5.25+ girth I was getting just nights earlier.

Is there anyway to increase EQ fast? Or any way to build it back up, and I really have zero libido now also, watching porn or sexting or doing anything sexual is doing almost nothing for me and I’m getting very worried any help is appreciated

I’m surmising that the majority of your problem is stress. And the more you stress about your penis size, or performance, the more likely it is that you’ll experience poor EQ and poor performance. Relax and let the new situation (new relationship or lack of) develop and I’m betting that your EQ will be back to normal soon. Concentrate on your other hobbies and interests and chill out. Good luck. Also, consider eliminating the porn.

I believe it could be stress aswell, should I PE still? I haven’t for about a week and a half so I’m very behind.

Thank you (:

Jelq at night and in the morning you’ll be right as rain.

But it seems stress related so, breath go get a massage or something or booty call.

Thanks Dino, I just did my first workout back, 10 minutes of jelqing I believe but most likely more, 20 jelq squeeze and two one forty five second hand clamps I feel like I most likely overworked it to be honest but I guess I’ll see in the morning. No turtling yet just full hanging.

Good to hear.

I reckon you answer your own question here. “Zero” libido is usually going to entail a weaker erection quality and even loss of morning/nighttime wood. As others have suggested, I think your libido problems are probably related to life stress in connection with your recent breakup (and possibly other things you haven’t made clear). Don’t panic about it. Just give yourself time to reset things mentally.

You been PEing for long?

If you’re 18 and haven’t had a lot of partners, it’s possible that you just aren’t 100% comfortable yet with your new partner. The world would have guys believe that our libido spikes for new pussy but I know I’ve always been more nervous the first time with a new girlfriend. Try not to think about PE and EQ, just focus on enjoying and pleasuring your partner and your 18 year old libido will rise to the occasion.

Thanks everyone for the answers, I’m going to the gym right now, hitting some arms and I’m already feeling better. My EQ still is a bit disappointing but already my flaccid is hanging fuller so that’s always a good sign I believe. I’m talking to a new girl, she’s beautiful, pretty funny, and kinky. But I’m not sure if I want to actually get with her, I might just take a break from the dating scene for a bit and let myself rest. I’ve been PEing since early December and I was looking into to it since months before, I’ve been lurking these forums for about a year haha. I’m mostly worried about my girth, as with a almost 7.5 bone press length with a minimal fat pad I am not to terribly worried about length but with only 5.2 girth ish I’m lacking on that. So I’m mostly going to focus on girth only once I hit 6 months in. I need to get my other head completely off of her and get with someone else but I might take my time doing that. Either way thank you everyone for your answers and help