Telling the wife

If your wife is anything like mine, she’ll just end up mocking you for it during a heated argument.

Telling your wife about PE is as risky as any other form of gambling, you run the risk of losing.

And finding yourself talking with woman you love about another guys dick is a nightmare.

Drop the idea of a supportive wife and continue in stealth mode, for yourself.

Your wife didn’t “cheat” with him because of the size of his dick, so get that thought out of your mind. She slept with him because he emphasized with her an made her feel really good about herself, at least at first. If you want to keep your wife I would recommend you focus more on enhancing your relationship instead of enhancing your penis to keep her around. What do you expect PE is going to do to keep your marriage healthy? Asside from sex a few nights a week, if you’re lucky, your wife wants a big strapping man she can complain about her day to and who will understand the crazy complicated and highly coded words that come from her mind….. maybe even have you help her around the house instead of sneaking away to pull on your cock. Grab a broom and get over yourself.

That is humorous. How well do you play with your hands and tongue. Sex is not just poke, poke, poke away. Not with the ladies anyway. It’s like starting an old diesel motor. You have to care for her in more ways than just one. When was the last time you sent her a flower to work or even taken it to her yourself. Taken the time to write her a letter, poem, or get her a card. Make her a special dinner. Take a shower with her just so you can wash her so she can stand there, dry her off by patting the skin don’t try and rub when your drying her off (they believe it dries out the skin). When you get out of the shower rub her with baby oil before you dry or lotion after.

I’m not saying sex, lovemaking, however you want to say it; isn’t a two way street. But before you get to the bedroom there are little things you can do to “trick” her mind sorta speak. I don’t mean you don’t love her or not to do those things out of love. I mean this will show her you love her and care for what is going on to or with her. The more special she feels about you the better things should get. I’m not saying be a puppy, lap dog, or puppet. You still have your own things to do. PE for example. Hanging out with the guys from time to time. Tell her things like you saw a woman and she was hot, but not near as hot as your lady. These are little mind teasers for her. The easier it is for her to be open with you or open up to you sexually the easier it will be to start your old diesel.

You just keep doing your part with having a steel woody when she’s warmed up and ready. Remember though, you have to prime every engine before it’ll start. In the old days before computers in cars(engine control modules) you always had to tinker with your carburetors before it would start. It’s the same with a woman. You have to rub her body, caress her, then you toy with the idea of maybe touching her vagina. She”ll probably be begging you for it but you can’t give it to her yet. You have to tease her and make her want to take it from you. Just keep your composure and you’ll get her to the big “O”. And that my friends is what they want more than a monster size. Its to have a great time. Now having a monster bat swinging can help, but if you don’t know how to swing it and hit that home run it doesn’t matter if your the size of a pony.

And it would be nice to treat a woman like that, but its difficult to get the sugar up when she’s been difficult and controlling about the PE thingy.

Men have feelings that need validating also, and Oprah fails to point that out to women she “helps”.

This is right on women need security and confidence don’t allow them to question you if she catches you just tell her I enjoy private time with myself you don’t have to ask her permission and you don’t need to explain what your doing. Lock the bathroom door. Women like to try to control men and when they have full control they treat men like puppets and end up cheating on them because women need a strong man not someone they could control. Its human nature that evolved over many years you need to be confident and don’t allow here to control you.

1) Don’t tell her
2) Keep working slow and steady
3) read the “make her squirt” thread and learn how to make her cum from the inside
4) Get your relationship to a point where she feels like she is your queen and you are her king. And when I say queen, I’m not talkin any of that up on a pedestal crap. She must know that you would do anything to care for and protect her.. But also.she must know that if she so much as second guesses you, you will kick her ass to the curb.

Just my opinion

Just tell her it’s no competition and that you want to do it to feel better about yourself and also to keep busy lol. I didn’t think too many woman would feel this way, maybe being married is another story because she may take it as an offence that you won’t let it go that her last was bigger. The way I look at it is a woman likes it when a man works out and takes care of his body, why not feel the same way about your unit? it’s part of your body. I mean I never told me girlfriend for awhile until she noticed the O rings around my shaft from the pump, she laughed and giggled but didnt have nothing bad to say about it and now i’m open about it with her…and she’s always open for me…LOL

Biggest mistake I made the first time was not telling her it was for penis health, but just to get bigger. I said that because at the time I didn’t know getting bigger was the “side” benefit. She actually doesn’t want my pathetic stub to grow! She was making comments about my length being more and how she couldn’t take me all in her mouth. I told her it was because of my weight loss, half true I did gain .25 BPEL by first go round.

I believe this dude made her scared of taking a larger one. I really don’t think the other guy has a big dick, probably average, just bigger than mine.

From what little information I got from her, he had no consideration for her and forced himself on her most of the time. She said she consented, but because she was afraid not to. This dude is a scumbag drunk. So I think her bad experiance with him put her off the wrong idea for the wrong reason. I don’t think his dick hurt her, HE DID.

The way I’m thinking about her taking me anyway, is we are having sex all along and gains are slow. It’s not like I’ll wake up tomorrow with a 10x7 and try and jam I in like I do now. Wouldn’t she adapt and grow along with me?

Oh men. We do we care that much about other guys dicks? We do we torture ourselves so much obsessing with dicks, growing and comparing them?

Isn’t that the billion dollar question?

Any more suggestions about talking to the wife about my PE?

Don’t do it.

Women get the benefit of us doing PE but they shouldn’t get a free opportunity to cut our emotions up.

Women are emotional terrorists. They use feelings like we use fists.

Don’t give them ammunition.

Most wise sentence I have read on a long time.