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Tearing vagina

Is it normal to always be tearing my girls vagina when we have sex. I always take it slow and use lots of lube. But based on a few factors we only can make love about once every 2 or 3 weeks. And when we go at it I tear her and she gets really sore and wants me to cum not long into it. My girth is somewhere around the 5.75 range. I never really had a good measurement but I’m basing on my diameter of just over 2”. Could that be the problem or does it happen to everyone? Can be frustrating. Anything to fix it?

Uhh, what? Do you mean she has some hymen remaining and you’re tearing that skin (at the entrance)? If so, she could look into surgical removal — some women need that to get the last bits of hymen out of the way.

Otherwise, I don’t have any idea what you’re talking about, but it does not sound good. I’ve heard of trouble with penetration (vaginismus), but “tearing” of the vagina? Explain. Certainly your girth has nothing to do with a problem of this severity. Variations in penis size can affect post-coital soreness, but “tearing” and a 2-3 week recovery period implies something very dire happening.

Every single long term girlfriend I’ve been with has complained about me tearing something in their vagina.


Starting: (2/1/06) (nbpel=7.8) (bpel=8.15) (eg=5 3/16)

06/29/07: (nbpel=8 1/2) (bpel=9) (mid eg=6) (base eg 6.25)

Comparison Pictures, 8in to 9in= My Comparison Pic thread.

At the base of her vagina when I put my dick in it hurts her(I have to take it really slow and use lots of lube) and I looked down last time and at the bottom of her vagina it was really sore and red looking.

She says it tears. It’s sort of looks like a small paper cut at the bottom of her vagina and a lot of redness. It seems it happen alot. She gets sore alot when we have sex and we don’t go for very long.

Is it possible she’s spasming..?, if she is apprehensive to begin with, this could happen involuntarily.. perhaps trying with various size dildos and lube may give you more idea about what is going on.. Otherwise a visit to the gyno may be in order.

Originally Posted by thecrow19
At the base of her vagina when I put my dick in it hurts her(I have to take it really slow and use lots of lube) and I looked down last time and at the bottom of her vagina it was really sore and red looking.
Hmmm, sounds like it might be a hymen problem. She should see a doctor about it. I was with a girl once who had to get a last bit of her hymen surgically removed (at age 21) after I tore it during sex and the tissue started to turn necrotic (ugh). Very simple, quick, painless surgery.

Originally Posted by PapSmearster
Every single long term girlfriend I’ve been with has complained about me tearing something in their vagina.
What sorts of jewelry adorn your penis? :)

I have had the same problem and I’m 52 and my current girlfriend is 47. She also bleeds sometimes after sex. I’m about 5.75 + also and that ‘s just bigger then her ex and what she was used to. It a running joke between us now. This also happened to another girl I was dating. Both were real responsive and them being dry was not the problem.

If your diameter is 2”, it means your girth is probably over 6” (2”*3,1416=6,28”). 6,25” is a pretty big girth. I find that beyond 5,75” every 0,25” in girth makes a huge difference.

I’m at 6” girth and and got about 40% of the girls I’ve had sex with bleeding from it, especially in the first sexual encounters (of course, I’m not talking about girls that were virgins). Chances are that your big girth is what explains the “tearing”. You don’t need to have an absolute monster cock to be too big for some girls…

You guys are doing something wrong, or your women have some sort of anatomical problem, if there is non-menstrual bleeding during sex. I’ll be the first to admit that a big girth can limit one’s sex life in various ways — mine tapers from 6.5” at the base to 6” toward the glans — but “tearing” and bleeding during sex should not be among your problems.

I never consider base girth as counting, but when I consider it I was about 6.25 girth a year ago and thats when she complains the most is when I go all the way in. It makes sense now.


Starting: (2/1/06) (nbpel=7.8) (bpel=8.15) (eg=5 3/16)

06/29/07: (nbpel=8 1/2) (bpel=9) (mid eg=6) (base eg 6.25)

Comparison Pictures, 8in to 9in= My Comparison Pic thread.

Not proud of it, but I’ve been with one woman I’ve torn. The latin term for the location is the “frenulum labiorum pudendi” aka the fourchette. It was at about day 3 of what was supposed to be a wild 7 day Mexico fuckfest. After several trial and errors on treating the wound and still be able to fuck, we discovered Campho Phenique did the trick. A little dab made the area numb and at it we went.

Of course, she later told me that when we divorced she hooked up with a guy and had the same thing happen… this time it was herpes. I’m not saying she’s full of shit, she may very well be, but your girl should get a checkup with a gynecologist.


If girth is king, why the hell does everyone keep talking about length?

I’ll tell you what a tear is.

I was having sex with an ex awhile back and she was riding me on top and she did this weird kind of twisting jerking motion. Kind of hurt me actually. Well she ended up bleeding a little bit. We thought nothing of it and gave it a couple days and then tried it out again. It was so bad, it was dripping down her legs and even had a few pieces to it. needless to say we didn’t have sex for awhile.

His peter is probably not a perfect cylinder so he could be 2” wide but still be 5.75”. I’m sure about your girl’s bleeding, though. It’s either a hymen, period, or tissue being messed up thing. Is she lubed-up good when you guys get it on?

I meant I’m NOT sure. LOL.

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