Targeted Growth?

Most men would agree that for pleasuring their wife girth is king. Sure, there can reach a point where too much is just too much. It sounds like you two have a great relationship. Give him time and tell him what you like to feel. I know you’ll do it in a manner that doesn’t make him feel inadequate. Damn baseball cards, lol.

Lol yes, damn baseball cards. So, why is it men are so stuck on length if you all know the girth is what is important to sexual satisfaction?

Because for 99.9% of the guys here… its not about her. Sorry just the honest truth. A lot of guys here are insecure even though they are above average or huge. Some are narcissist, some are trying to fill a void that has nothing to do with their equipment.

The truth is as long as you are average or close to it, you can give any girl that can have a vaginal orgasim, an orgasim.

I am average length and just slightly above average girth, I do it because I .. JUST … WANT … MORE.

LOL! I love the honesty there. So in other words it’s like us about our tits ;) got it lol.

For many woman girth is king and best serves the queen.

I’ve chased both down. Learning your partner is huge. I’ll continue to seek my goal while listening to my wife.

I believe simple flaccid stretches can give some base girth.It’s a length exercise though.

Am I the only one here who is convinced that excessive masturbation makes your penis lose size, especially girthwise?

For me there was no problem.

I don’t do it regularly now, but a few years ago I did.

I agree… not so much that the act reduces girth… but it does definitely take a lot away from arousal and EQ… wich are two main contributors to girth size

When he will be long enough to reach your cul de sac, you will forget completely about girth….

Not true, he’s already able to bottom out on me at times and in certain positions, and ur right, I forget it.. BC I’m in pain from having my cervix beaten lol

It’s really not a pleasant feeling.

If I may, could you offer up an “ideal” girth number, in your opinion? I’m curious, I had sex last night, I’m about 5” erect girth, and I was trying everything to get her to cum based on girth. I realize she probably needs more clitoral stimulation, but as a guy, I dream of just filling her up and getting her to orgasm through my penis inside of her. It’s a psychological thing for me, would make me feel more manly. I know big picture importance is that she cums and is satisfied, but I can’t be the only guy out there who wants a girl to cum on his dick because of how girthy it is. Any thoughts are appreciated here!

Cmack as I understand it only about half of the women out there can have a vaginal orgasim without any clitoral stimulation. So im guess it does not matter how thick or long you are for some women it’s just not possible to cum that way. My wife seems to think that women can learn to have a vaginal orgasim by masturbating and “looking” for some kind of feeling that leads to orgasim? I don’t know it’s a woman thing I guess. Anyway it might not be in your control.

Personally? 5.5-6” and going bigger than 6” girth is intimidating as hell. And I say that sitting here with a baby not quite 3 months old and I wouldn’t want more than 6” girth.

As Harry said, most women need clitoral stimulation too, it’s just how we are, sometimes it’s as simple as a position where the guys pubic bone is rubbing against us and that’s enough, but sometimes it takes more. Yes some women can have an orgasm without it, sometimes women fake it to stroke egos, but honestly, majority of women only reach orgasm during sex 1/2-3/4 of the time if they are lucky. It’s not the guy, it’s being in the moment without distractions, like wondering if the trash got taken out or if the kids will wake up, etc. Women are crazy complicated creatures, which is why we can barely stand each other lol.