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After a long jelking session my penis swells up gets abit red and when my girl friend was giving oral sex she thought it was different should I tell her I do pe

Nope, just look shocked and bewildered and tell her

“Wow that has NEVER happened to me ever before. You’re amazing baby!”

Me personally, I would never tell my girlfriend I PE, no matter how serious our relationship gets. You might break up with your girl down the track and she might go around telling everyone..

how old are you if you dont mind me asking?

No, no, no, no don’t tell her under any circumstances! It will only lead to bad things child.

I wouldn’t. Your wife is one thing, your girlfriend is a totally different monster. LOL

Yeah, I wouldn’t advise it. It basically comes down to, could you deal with everybody knowing you do it? Because that’s what you’re risking happening.

I would tell her but I can only speak from my own experience. It kinda depends on how secure you are in your relationship.
I guess you have a few options.
#1. If you completely trust her and feels she values your need for privacy in this delicate matter, then you should tell her. Don’t just tell her you’re making your dick bigger but rather give all the facts. Tell her about the process, how it’s done, why you’re doing it, what benefits it has etc, and tell her that you’re careful and sensitive about the matter. You might even wanna tell her about this forum and that you’re talking to hundreds of people (just giving a number, dont know how many members there are) that are doing the same thing and are supportive to eachother about it, so she knows you’re not alone doing this.

#2. Dont tell her at all. I personally dont recommend this cause I wouldnt want to live in a relationship with a bunch of secrets, trying to get swing away from questions that will eventually raise up.
- Why have you been in the bathroom for so long?
- Oooh, I’m, uh, just takin a shit baby.
- For thirty minutes!??
When she is starting to notice that your dick is actually bigger she’s gonna want some answers, and if she’s not getting answers I bet she’ll start speculating on her own, and probably not in a good way.

#3. Tell her that you are doing some exercises to increase your penis health and nothing more. Dont tell her about increasing size but merely about increasing EQ and general health. If you’re working out in anyway just tell her that taking care of your body includes your entire body.

#4. Lie your brains out, about everythng. Avoid all subjects at hand and steer off from all conversations including this particular matter. <— Defenitely NOT recommended.

Don’t tell her. There’s a chance she’ll use it as ammunition against you.

Great answer, by the way. You’ll get some browny points telling her something like this. Her ego will go through the roof.

I told my girlfriend the very first day I started out. I’ve told her earlier I sure wouldnt mind a bigger size and when I found out about PE I told her about the process and how it’s all done. This created a conversation on the matter that was adult and friendly with questions from both sides, suddenly I found myself with a bunch of questions I hadnt thought of that she brought up, which was a good thing.
We actually had another small conversation about this yesterday and since she knew from the start theres no tension about it all.
To summerize the matter:
I believe that if you tell your girlfriend/wife at an early state and tell her about the entire process you’ll get a spouse that feels closer to you for trusting her with such a thing. If you dont tell her you’ll probably get an angry spouse later on asking question on why the level of trust is so low and/or if she’s not satisfying your needs, making it into a selfpleasuring matter behind her back.

Sorry for posting so close together I just didnt make the edit time :P

I told my girlfriend from the first day and she was able to tell me what would be better to gain with.. Naturally girth lol

I would not tell my girl friend ever. Many on here don’t even tell their wives.

If you have a soul mate like partner and are 100% sure she’ll accept it then tell her, if not then don’t.

This is personal as it may get guys. If you got a wife that is as openminded as you are then I would deffinitely give her a heads up, but if you do give her the whole nine inches er yards about it. She may be interested, she may be freaked, or she may be plain bored. Heck she may be aroused about the idea that she will finally get that fat monster dick she has always “secretly” fantasizes about stretching her crevice to it’s max and cheer you on for the benefit of the results.

If you tell her, telling her it’s for penile health is a little white lie. That’s an option not already mentionned.

As with all things, lying is normally a bad option. But a lie of omission where no one gets hurt isn’t so terrible is it?

Only you know her and your relationship so asking total strangers for advice is a little tricky. Looks like you’ll have to work this one out for yourself…

Good luck whatever you do. :)

I agree with this guy. I told my girlfriend, and everything worked out quite fine. Even now, and I broke it off with her 1 month ago(we were together for 5,5), no bitterness at all. When we talk together, once in a while she asks if everything is fine with me and how things are going PE-wise.

Although I wouldn’t tell many girls if they were my girlfriend. You just have to be a good judge of character, because sometimes you know it’s a kind of girl that may use something like PE against you. So if you think your current girlfriend if mature enough be told one of your greatest secrets go right ahead.