stuck between a rock and a hardplace...
I’m really at a loss here. This is my story…
I started PE about 3 weeks ago, I’ve seen maybe 1/4 an inch in length which is good, but that is not why i’m on the board posting this. When I started PE I noticed that when I had sex, I achieved orgasm much quicker. This is NOT something I wished to gain from doing PE. I decided that maybe it was just mental, so I took a vow of abstinence for about 2 weeks, and the girlfriend understood. I just told her “I had some things to work out”. Anyway, again today we have sex, and it is much worse this time. Before PE I could pretty much go as long as I wanted too, now I am reduced to only a couple of minutes.
Needless to say, this is not the desired effect. The whole reason I started PE was to better be able to satisfy my girl, and this is in fact doing just the opposite. As much as I want to continue PE I feel that it is putting a hindrance on my relationship with my girlfriend. Has anyone else gone through anything similar to this? Here is my current program if anyone is interested.
5 minute warmup
40 minutes of Manual streches, fowfer’s, DLD blasters
30 minutes of Jelq and Horse 440’s
5 minute cool down
I also try and get in quite a few Kegels throughout the day, starting with short ones and working up to longer ones up to 10 seconds.
I feel that if I can’t get this sorted out, I will have to stop PE. As it is right now I’m going to take a 2 week break and see if the problem persists. If it does then it isn’t the PE, and I’ll have to reexamine the problem. But any advice would be very helpful. Thank you.