You are asociating PE with masturbation/ hot stuff…stop it… nothing kinky about stretching. Just think about it as something LOGICAL to make the dick bigger.
What you are doing is material and non-sexual. You are stretching a body part carefully in order to make it bigger. I truely believe it’s psychological mindset. (subconscious stuff)
Don’t think about erections… Don’t think about not having erections… Think about succesful PE as it should be…
Same mindset used in ejaculation control:
“I’m not going to cum!” … You are going to cum because you are thinking about cuming. Law of attraction, brain subconscious behaviour interpreting your thought about cuming and leading it to happen, call it whatever you want…
“I’m having a great time with my girl, we’re pleasing each other and it’s just wonderful!” …proper mindset…
Apply it to PE…
I’m having difficulties mentaining erection level while jelqing… I need autosuggestion, my brain/body has to understand that although I’m not doing anything sexual I need an erection level for whatever am I doing…
Good luck, bro.
IDare