Stressing over penis size

I am currently in a somewhat bad mood and feeling down. I should be motivated and I should also be looking forward to continuously losing weight but for some reason I am just worried that I will not gain anything in size. That even when I lose weight, my confidence won’t be better.

There was a time, 2015 to be exact, where I was at my most confident state ever. I would go up to girls and talk to them. I’d get their numbers. It was such a great feeling. But now I feel like I’m in a hole I can only get out of when the size of my penis increases. I know, dumb to think that way, but I am just so scared that if I were to find a woman that loves or accepts me the way I am, that one day she might give “bigger” guys a try. Do you know what I mean? This is what really gets me so low right now.

I really want to continue losing weight, I want to continue doing the exercises I found on this website. But I am just worried. I really am and the fact that I can go from extremely self-confident to where I am now is really frustrating.

Thank you for reading guys.

I wouldn’t stress too much over it. The chances of a girl leaving you for a guy just for penis size is pretty unlikely. Unless you’re working with a micro penis then you should be just fine.. Plus if some girl wants to leave you just because she wants a bigger guy then she’s shallow to begin with and not worth the effort

It’s not micro but I would say like average. I am not that sure, my erections aren’t that great because for some reason I cannot really hold them. Probably has partly something to do with the overweight. I also think that I just can’t measure correctly. I think I am not doing it right.

And sure, a girl like that would not be worth the effort but I am looking for something serious rather than just “fun”. But this is another story. The whole PE thing of course makes me a little skeptical but I’ll have to try.

Also when measuring, my penis loses its erection and on the other hand, the hardest erection I get is when I am sitting and not standing up. Is it still okay to measure even while sitting?

Your problems right now have nothing to do your penis size. You have an average peice girls are usually expecting an average piece and aren’t alarmed by average. Just like guys aren’t expecting the Highest level shit and girls beat themselves up over insecurities of being average too. Deal with whatever the real problem is cause it’s not your dick.

I think my biggest problem is my overweight that I am now trying to overcome. Maybe it is porn that messes with my mind now, maybe not.

What I think is that maybe a women or when I have a wife later in life thinks I am not manly enough because I don’t have a bigger penis. Those are insecurities that when I am self-confident would not even matter to me. Back then when I was really self-confident, penis size didn’t matter at all to me because I wasn’t think ahead as in I wasn’t thinking like “What is she going to think when we both end up in bed?”.

I need to get this out of my mind because just a few days ago I was feeling great. Really good actually. I want to find a solution. I want to accept what I got down there but I also want to keep improving like I want to continue doing PE exercises and losing weight.

I know I will lose weight but I don’t know if I will gain size. All things aside, is there a chance of not gaining anything with the Newbie Routine? Let’s say I am consistent and I am doing the Newbie Routine for 90 days straight, 2 days on and 1 day off. If I do everything correctly and really do put in the time on the day I need to do the exercises, will I gain?

I think the first thing you should address is your mind and body. A healthy body, to me at least, should come before working on PE. I think to me it sounds like your body image is making you feel inadequate in areas that maybe you’re really not lacking in. Hit the track and slim down a bit, you’d be surprised how much confidence you’ll get back

Some of the most confident guys I know are guys who were once fat or overweight. In fact some of them are cocky even because they’ve lost so much weight

I empathize with you, I really do. I know it’s easier said than done but women really do not obsess over dick size generally. Women especially genuine women want the man. You got a find a way to get off your obsession of thinking down on yourself. 95% of women enjoy average peters. ….but “what if she…”. questions….that’s a trap and it’s not reality. You’re way more brutal on yourself than a woman would ever be.

Your confidence or lack of is linked with how you feel you measure up to other guys. God gave you what you have but it’s up to you to make the most of it. Quit crying about getting an average penis or a mediocre face, etc. make the most of it. Lose the weight, put on some muscle and make your dick bigger. Enjoy what you have right now but seek to continuously improve.

PE works but only as much as you put into it.

And btw ive pleased a woman with my 4.25” girth for 20 years without a complaint.

I will try to post more later to give you some encouragement, we are both new to this I just started and I have plenty of weight to lose, but I am doing PE for me not anyone else. Being overweight can make you insecure, but you have to say fuck that and be confident either way. Never let anything stop you from pursuing what you want in life.

Bottom line if a girl wants to cheat or leave you to find a guy with a bigger dick, that is shallow and someone not worth your time.

I can completely understand where you’re coming from man. Back 15 years ago I had no confidence issues with my dick (other than a girl seeing me flaccid). Women really don’t care about the size of a guys dick, but I know the feeling of always thinking “what if she wants bigger”. We have to accept the fact that sure, they may be curious as to what it would feel like to be with an anaconda, but don’t we also think about what it would be like to be with some super model or someone else? There will always be someone else that we think our women would like more, but women think the same way. Remember the insecure feelings go both ways. The best thing you can do when you find a woman is treat her like she’s the only one you have eyes for, and hopefully she’ll follow suit. Something I’ve been meaning to try with my wife is to purposely get caught looking at another woman, if my wife makes a comment, then I would shoot back with something like “your ass is WAY hotter than hers” or “her body has nothing on you”. Show her that of course there are other women out there that would catch our eye, but we are very happy with what we have. And that’s what we need to remember as well. Women might think about it, but doesn’t mean they aren’t completely satisfied with what we give them.

As for your body, just keep working on it. You’ll find that the healthier you become, the better you will feel overall. Eating better and exercising adjust the chemicals in our body to increase serotonin (the happy chemical). This will increase your confidence and will show to others around you.

*PS: I also used to think dick size determined how “manly” we are. But that’s NOT the case what so ever. We are as manly as we want to be and feel. Being manly isn’t determined on how we dress (unless you’re in fact wearing a dress; then I wouldn’t think that’s very manly), our profession, our dick size, or how we talk. Being manly is just what we are!

Stand tall, pump out that chest, and shoot women a nice smile. :)

Welcome to the human condition. We must balance being grateful for what we have while striving for more than what we have. Dont lose your life on either. That is what its all about. Start talking to your dick, say thanks for existing. Thanks for not getting mutilated in a German Chocolate factory accident. Then tell it: “We are a team, lets get to work.”

What is your weight loss method? Getting in fantastic shape is a great way to increase your confidence, no matter what any ‘beautiful at any size’ person will tell you. Imagine if you put together and followed a ‘body plan’ as this seems to be where your frustrations are. Imagine what 2 years of healthful eating, athletic pursuit, and PE can do for you…You would wake up 2 years from now with a lean, strong, flexible body. A bigger cock you are more in control of. And a mind that has developed a taste for good, persistent, long term WORK.

You know this stuff works. There are so many guys on here who have gained and you see it with your eyes. They are not selling everything. I myself had to get over my conditioned skepticism and just accept that if I put in the appropriate work, that I would gain.

PE and weight loss/gym seem to go hand in hand, I started with PE saw some gains and thought what if I get in a gym and get a little healthier too? I try to go at least twice a week ever since then and feel better than I have in years.

I hear people say on here if a girl is with you it’s because of what’s attached to the dick (you) not the dick.

If you don’t mind me asking what kinda stats do you have? What do you weigh how tall BPEL EG.

Also when it comes to talking with girls just be confident like you were in 2015, they can’t see your unit through your pants good enough to really know whether you’re packing a 4 incher or a 7.

Another tip of advice is don’t just go to the gym just to do it, because that turns into the longest most boring time ever. You need to have a purpose in the gym and goals, my reason is to be the best I can in the sports I do, not trying to be a pro but I wanna be the best of all my friends. That’s my purpose.

Oh yeah and as far as worrying about not gaining in PE just get that shit out of your head right now!!!!! I’m serious your mentality determine so much in life if you honestly think you won’t gain I wouldn’t be surprised if you literally don’t because you’re telling yourself you won’t. I have the mentality that Mandingo better look out as far as size when realistically I have a better chance making it to Pluto but I still will try! And also I’m about 8 months in and have gained about an inch in girth already, haven’t measured length in 4 months but it’s definitely longer too.

So tell yourself you will gain, look yourself in the mirror and call yourself the man 10 times to feel a little better if you need to, do it every day eventually you won’t just be telling yourself you’re the man but you will be the fuckin man and really start to believe it.

Sorry that was super long but I had a lot to say. Manuals work, pumps for girth, extended and hanging for length. And have common sense

So many great things have already been said.

Try to accept your current condition and enjoy every day. Work on the things you want to change. Know that we all have things we need to improve and that we are all on this ship together.

In the meantime of the never ending journey of self improvement, if a woman is giving herself to you, take her and show her the time of her life, use everything you got and don’t look back.

Remember that her needs are far more than an above average penis.

God speed.

The type of girl that’s gonna cheat on you is a shit person. Has nothing to do with size.

Get in there, make her feel sexy, dominate, and don’t look back.