Stressing over penis size

Even if she did leave you for a bigger guy, then she’s just a sl00t man and you’re better off than being with one that chases the next big thing.. But I feel you on that funk thing, sometimes I think it’s my insecurity as an asian male and that I might live up to the stereotype. But I’ve talked to a few girls and they think I’m big (I’m about 6.5-7” BPEL and 5”EG”). You just need to find a way to gain back your confidence! I’m trying to do the same, as back a few years ago I was prolly the best wingman you could find and was able to take a girl from the bunch being the wingman but now I feel like I can’t even carry a conversation with a girl without it seeming boring.

Somehow gain that “don’t give a fuck” attitude back!

“Walk like a god, and your goddess will come to you”

that of course requires developing yourself and thinking of yourself as a god

Great advice! One of the most attractive things to a woman is confidence. Like Madvillain said, get in there and own it. Most women love a take charge guy. Be that guy.

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Please, master, tell me how!!

The best way to hack stress is exercise. Period.

+1. Quickest natural remedy to stimulate both physiological and psychological changes.

Right on.

Girth was my primary concern. I was always okay with length but always wanted to be thicker so I made it a top priority. Honestly I’d say most of it comes from pumping because that’s what I do most, buy a cheap beginners pump and use it in the shower every once in awhile too. That and I always use a heating pad when air pumping, do a warm up a stench and only jelq like 25 times before pump 25 in between then hot shower after

Thank you O.P. For giving me this opportunity to reply

First you must be true to yourself, if you enjoy football enjoy it, or ski slalom. Super moto whatever just go with it.

I see you are in Germany, I’m in the UK, and I love Germany and have many friends there, The German women I’ve met are sooo sexy. Stop worrying about who you are or what you are, the Lady’s just want a man, and that is YOU, your penis is just a part of you. I have many friends ( women) that have lovers with no penis at all (other women) so obviously penis size is not important to them, ( maybe I shouldn’t say that on this forum) invite your girlfriends to come watch something that you enjoy, I bet they enjoy it too , be the best you can be, nobody’s perfect (this should be a long post but I am not good at saying what I mean so maybe someone can expand it) all the best Uncle Nasty.

Good post U-Nasty. We are what we are, so just get on with living!

Confidence is always more important than size. Arrogance on the other hand…

+1

I have a friend who is on the smaller side and he’s ridiculously confident around women. Not to the point he’s cocky, but I guarantee you he doesn’t think about what size penis he has when he talks to women. We think way more about our dicks than women will ever think about dicks

I agree.

Thank you for posting your fears. I think they are common insecurities all guys face, big dick or not.

I believe that certain types of porn can be really bad to watch when insecure about penis size.( I am NOT telling anyone what to do here,) but I don’t watch much porn anymore because it leads to a very negative self image.

I believe a lot of my own insecurities come from watching hardcore porn at a young age and that porn twists my idea of what women want and how men are supposed to look

My 2cents is to maybe lay off porn (or look only at women, not men) for awhile and see if you glean any positive mental strength from that

Again I am not saying porn is all bad and shouldn’t be watched. Maybe just moderated