Yeah I’m not saying David Shade’s good at pickup but his book on getting girls off is pretty good.
Also check out Nina Hartley’s Guide to Sensual Domination and Ultimate Female Ecstasy videos.
Basically first get the frame of being the one in control (take 2 steps forward, then 1 back) by escalating and then pulling back, taking it a little further then pulling back a little and so on. Turn it around from the usual frame which is the guy hoping to get some pussy to having her craving for you to fuck her. It’s a great feeling guys when girls beg for you to fuck them or aggressively try to get your dick into them.
Then from there get the whole dominance thing, work it up gradually the more turned on she is the more you can do. You’d be amazed at the shit she will do when you have her adequately turned on and you don’t hesitate or ask for permission. You will love the respect and looks of admiration a girl will give you after you give her some dominant sex.
And I really recommend you guys play around with talking dirty to a girl. I avoided it for a long time because I was uncomfortable with it but having tried it a few time I honestly don’t know how I went so long with silent sex lol. It’s so much fun and you will love the reaction you get from girls, it’s so hot. A word of warning once you start doing all this stuff having a girl just lay there and take it will not be enough to get you off, you will have higher standards of what makes sex good and what you like. This actually works to your advantage cause girls will see what you go for and will sense that you’re used to a higher bar than most guys. This means she will put you above most other guys she’s been with right off. She will assume you’re used to doing kinky stuff in bed, will be turned on by the thought that you are that kind of guy and she will be much more willing to do kinky shit since she knows you get it all the time as opposed to someone who comes off more reserved. With those guys she’ll put up more of a resistance to doing the shit she actually wants to do, because she doesn’t want the guys to think she’s a slut and that she’s more experienced than they are. When you are more used to doing kinky stuff and are casual about it she will be much more willing to go along with it.