Starting the journey
Hi guys, I’ve been reading the forum for a week or so and have enjoyed the posts, and figured I’d log my starting point.
Those figures are at my best point, a 100% erection.
I’ve always wanted to be 9 inches, but after reflection and observation from sexual experience, I’m thinking that could be too much (and too hard to attain). So, maybe set the goal at the “magic” number, 8x6? Even 7.75x6 would be good, and would seem reachable if you look at the cases of many here. Just 1” length and .5 or so girth, that’s doable, right?
My gf dated a guy that was from my estimations (based on her showing me with hands and comparing to a dildo) 11x7. She said this was NOT pleasant at all, but there’s the male part of me that can’t believe it, and wants to compete. I got a rubber penis extension toy that we used the other day, which brought my dimensions to about 8.5 length & 7.5 girth. That’s a feeling of power to have that much between your legs! It took a little while of going easy and lots of lube to get it in, but eventually she could take it all but about an inch of the length, it was bottoming out. As a side note, one reason she may not have enjoyed her old flame, Mr. Big, is that he never once had lube. They only successfully achieved penetration one time! You’d think anyone with that size a unit would have a drum of KY handy. Anyway, we used that extension for the session. She made the comment that it wasn’t comfortable, but with using small thrusts for a bit she warmed up and she started enjoying it some. Later on she was reluctant to have sex again because of soreness, and REFUSED to let me use the extension again. Getting sex the next morning was like pulling teeth. Lol
I relate that story to show one reason I learned that it CAN be too big. I want to push her to the limits, but still want to be able to have sex freely. Base on this experience, I’d put my goal around the 8x6-6.5 range.
Even after reading warnings from this site, I have to admit to a sin. I’m only about a week into started to experiment with stretching/jelqing, but I bought a cheap penis pump (no gauge). I was playing with it last night, and afterwards had a red/brown blotch on the top of my shaft near the base. It is kind of diffuse now like a bruise. I sort of enjoy the feeling of the pump, but have taken this as a warning to go easy. Maybe just pump it a little and let it sit for 10 min or so before jelqing? Do you think this would help expansion any?
Most of the guys on here seem very cool, pleasant and helpful people. Thanks for the information!