Well, I’ve known about PE and discovered this site about 6 years ago. I am not small, but I realize my limitations. That said, I’ve been lucky over the years in that I have satisfied most all of my partners and feel lucky that I have some “talent” in the bedroom.
However, none of that matters when I still cannot shake the feeling that I need to be wider and longer. I’m currently at 6” BPEL and about 4.75” EG.
I have a LOT of reading to do, but I am very familiar with the newbie routine and tried it a few years ago with some gains in just a month, which was encouraging, but I stopped b/c once again I was in a relationship and everything was great in the bedroom. …Now, I do know from two of my past partners that I “could be bigger,” which I appreciated their honesty, and it never hurt my feelings, but made me aware of what I already knew and affirmed that I need to do something about it.
One problem of late, in the last two years…I’ve been without a consistent partner, have traveled a lot, and thus have been masturbating frequently…Almost every other day….Some weeks, every day. I think this may lead me down the premature ejaculation road and it also is causing weaker erections.
So, my first plan is not not masturbate for the next two weeks. I need to reconfigure my thought process to prepare for the workouts ahead. I noticed that when I masturbate less, my morning wood comes back in spades.
Do you guys have any thoughts or words of wisdom to share? I’m going to just start with the basic newbie routine in a few weeks, but first, I need to get out of this routine of jacking off, which I’m thinking is inhibiting my start to PE.