Solutions - Getting Hard Whilst Stretching.
I’ve asked and answered people about this question a few times. Someone PM’d me about it again so I figured I would answer for everyone to see as I’m sure some of the 1000 newbies may have trouble with it.
In my experience there are various things which can help. Here they are:
1) Using heat first, helps relax the tissue. Your dick will probably enjoy that and might get semi erect to fully erect during that. I think when you stretch, it gets slightly excited over being touched, so doing this initial warm which has various reported benefits; prevention of injury, helps gains and the relaxation issue so it won’t be overly sensitive when you come to touch it.
2) Jelqing. I prefer wet jelqs and believe jelqing should always ideally be done in PE no matter what stage you are at in your PE career for general penis health. Many believe it’s synergetic along side others form of PE for growth. Concerning the stretching aspect. I again find you can jelq whilst semi erect so it’s not a hindrance. After jelqing your penis may be fatigued so when you come to stretch it doesn’t get excited.
3) Between the cheek (BTC) stretching. You simply grab your flaccid dick and do a BTC stretch quickly. Don’t hold it out for to long if you have the problem of getting excited or blood will quickly come in making it hard to stretch it BTC. But once in that position I find it impossible to get hard.
4) Masturbate - Ejaculate shortly before stretching. You want to do it close enough to the session that you’re sexual desire hasn’t returned but long enough that you’re not overly sensitive.
5) Let your dick get used to stretching. This should in most peoples cases happen in time. Your Penis needs to tell the difference between PE time and play time. Try not to mix the two up ideally. Especially when stretching.
I myself have a habit of stretching my dick out when I want to get erect then watching porn as I do so. Which is probably a mistake and exactly the reason I’ve had trouble with getting hard during my stretching sessions in the past. I believe doing that caused my dick to get confused so couldn’t distinguish between work time and play time.
We men really do in part think with our dicks ;)
Anyway if you implement some or all of the above steps it should help you immensely. I would suggest doing a warmup then jelqing then stretching, I think if you did purely BTC stretches that would be good.
Feel free to give post any other suggestions that are relevant I may of missed off.