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Soft after orgasm

Soft after orgasm

Just wondering here:

From what I gather from the reading I’ve done, orgasm and ejaculation are events that are separate from one another. The idea to prevent ejaculation is to hold a kegel so you have the orgasm, but don’t ejaculate. But, is it possible to go soft after orgasm, even if you held back the ejaculation? Also, when the hell should I start the kegel clamp, before I feel the imminent ejaculation?

Yes, you can go soft afterwords, sometimes if you have a retrograde ejaculation (where the ejaculate goes back into the bladder, doesn’t cause any harm, but makes you soft) or, sometimes, if I hold the ejaculate, but have to fight it, I go soft for a bit. It’s a hard thing to master - as I, clearly, still have not - but it gets easier with time..

Try to hold back a little before the point of no return, and do a few hard squeezes (9 is the suggested number) focusing on bringing the energy up to your head; if you do this right, you might notice some redness in your chest, and you should definitely feel Hot for a few seconds; happy trails, it’s a long road ahead of you.

Damn. How long does this take to master, for those that have? I have the feeling my PC muscle is strong enough at this point but I can’t seem to get the damn technique down, and I haven’t found a place that details the process very well.

It takes many years to master, but the first experience comes relatively soon.

The actual trick - that takes quite some years to realise - is to RELAX the muscle rather than HOLD it. By doing this you are able to maintain an incredible, heightened state of extended arousal - where you’re basically high off your own ‘mind-cum’. Really. All it takes is like a minute (or so, depending on how horny you are) to get to this state and then all you have to do is keep it constant, maintain it at that stage.

By squeezing and relaxing the muscle, you can really have as many orgasms as you want (within reason, sometimes you DO lose control earlier than you would have liked, but it becomes a fun self-challenge after a while).

:)

Originally Posted by Swap
I have the feeling my PC muscle is strong enough at this point but I can’t seem to get the damn technique down, and I haven’t found a place that details the process very well.

Kegels - BC Exercises

Kegels please tell me WHAT

^ Recent topic.


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Ah, I see. I think I’m focusing more on the ballooning/multiple orgasm aspect - Kegel excercises I’ve got down pat. Another thing I’ve wondered about is people who can ejaculate and stay hard and keep going. I only know a few people who claim they can do this and they all thought is was pretty normal; my friend told me he would just masterbate and cum and clean up and “keep masterbating”, but I never quite got that because I always go soft right after I ejaculate. The latter thing I’m talking about is probably not attainable unless you’re naturally gifted with it, I guess.

Well that depends on how much of a horny mother fucker you are, Swap. I’m sure if you didn’t cum for like a week, you could ejaculate and carry on tossing, no problem. ;)


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Guess I’m not horny enough :(

Oh, and uh, if anyone happens to have the Multi-Orgasmic Man ebook.PM me?

And the quest for the non-ejaculatory orgasm continues. Same thing happened today as yesterday; I started clenching hard. A small amount of cum escaped, but definitely a fraction of the load. Both times I got confused, I thought I would go soft since I had felt some come out so I said “forget it” and released the clenching. Immediately after I was like.80% erection I had the orgasm, then ejaculated the full load. I’m thinking I’ll try one of two things next time: clench earlier, or if I clench at the usual time and some ejaculation escapes, continue the clench anyway and see where it goes. Wish me luck.

Good progress.


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Tried again today, failed. It was like I was clenching and the semen just powered right through it. I either clamped too late or my BC muscles still aren’t strong enough; workout and practice shall continue.

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