Soft after orgasm
Just wondering here:
From what I gather from the reading I’ve done, orgasm and ejaculation are events that are separate from one another. The idea to prevent ejaculation is to hold a kegel so you have the orgasm, but don’t ejaculate. But, is it possible to go soft after orgasm, even if you held back the ejaculation? Also, when the hell should I start the kegel clamp, before I feel the imminent ejaculation?